Do you girls ever break it.....? As I dont want to seem to pushy and that I am just after her for sex.....
2007-01-09 21:02:37 · 16 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that you have a one month rule - no sex in a month and it's not going to work.
2007-01-09 21:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by dr.twaticus 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The 3 date rule -
This one can be the hardest to follow, but abide by it. Girls know within the first 5 minutes how far they will go with you, and will probably do so at the earliest possible time. If you've been crossed off the "I'll sleep with him" list, it's very very difficult, and time consuming to get back on it.
Your time is better spent chasing new prospects. If you're on the list, you can still screw it up by being a jackass. If nothings happened in 3 dates, it's time to move on. The chances of you sleeping with her by now is very low. The only time you should see her again is if there is guaranteed sex. Continuing to pursue her will just cost you more money and waste more of your time.
2007-01-09 21:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
di reason y gals would ave a 3 month rule is to see if they can honestly trust that person and too see dat he aint gonna try and push em to do things they dnt wanna do. So guys a rule is rule dnt try and take gals for granted as they are not sex objects they are jus human as YOU. For the 3 months u aint havin sex try and get to knw each other then u will see that a realtionship doesnt have to be sex based.
2007-01-09 23:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by fishbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, a rule is a rule. the only exception is when it's really appropriate, but that hardly happens. don't be pushy unless you're sure that the atmosphere's right, time's right, place's right, or she might think that you're forcing her against her will and you aren't respecting her, even though you have no such intentions at all. through this, she'll also trust you more (as she would understand that you aren't after her just to bed her), appreciate you more. it's obviously good for the relationship! hope this helps, all the best :)
2007-01-09 21:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Melody 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is this the three month rule were she will only stay with u for three months or the "other" rule were she will wait three months before sex!!!!! If its the former then I'd push for sex as soon as my friend, coz it'll be over soon. If the latter then you have to ask yourself do you like her enough to wait? If you do then wots the problem?
2007-01-09 22:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by chilihifly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not a long time and should you be trying to have this girl break her rules then, to me, it looks like sex is the only thing on your mind!
2007-01-09 21:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't wait 3 months then you probably are too pushy.
2007-01-09 21:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously r jus after sex if you're asking this question. Jeez you blokes are all the same. You don't deserve a girl who obviously has morals n standards. Let her go n find someone who shares hers
2007-01-09 22:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you should be pleased she doesn't just jump into bed with every man on the first date. She sounds quite a catch and worth waiting for! Patience is a virtue you know!
2007-01-09 21:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months means about 15 different women to me. why waste time on empty promises after the 3 months you aren't guaranteed anything just calloused fingers.
2007-01-09 21:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋