I'm falling in love with a friend who has a girlfriend. I never tried to break them up, but after a couple of months of spending alot of time with him. We began to develop a good friendship and then started flirting alot. I spoke to him about it when i started to really care for him, i explained that i felt it was not right and that we should stop and that i had feelings for him. It did stop, then it went back to how it was with the flirting, this has happened a few times. We never talk about what is really going on, so i never really know how he feels. I dont know what to do anymore, should i ask him about it or should i just stop seeing him, i really care for him but i dont want to hurt anyone or get hurt myself. Any advice other than if he would do it to her, he could do it to you? sorry to re post
2007-01-09 20:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its good to avoid him coz' you might get hurt in the end. He's flirting with you because he knows that you like him and you would respond back. If you avoided him and he didn't do anything then he's clearly just flirting and doesn't want a relationship with you.
2007-01-09 21:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are attracted to things they cant have. This boy is taken. look somewhere else. Dont ruin his relationship for your sake.Im not saying stop being his friend. but stay away for a while until you find a new interest..because the more time you spend around this guy..the more you will want him..and remember..you dont want anyone to get hurt..you said it yourself.
2007-01-09 21:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is you should stop seeing him before you both do something you regret. Since you both are "flirting" like you say the next level of taboo could happen easily and cause not only a lot of heartache for you, it could for him and for his significant other and they didnt ask for this, did they? Thats not fair to them at all.
2007-01-09 21:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by haarleyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder why "flirting" is so important to you. flirting sends a message. you have sent this guy mixed messages. leave him alone. let him and nature take its course with the other girl. maybe he will someday look you up and you may have a guilt-free relationship.
2007-01-09 21:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you sense extra gentle with female a million then choose for it! clarify to female 2 that whether you do like her, you in simple terms cant see the way it would desire to artwork for you the two and not lead to soreness. tell her you fee your friendship along with her too lots to muss it up over a failed relationship.
2016-10-30 12:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants you or her - straight up or if hes just getting a thrill from your attention.
2007-01-09 21:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by burrowthroughanelephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-01-09 20:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by kurt cobains gun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and to yourself
2007-01-09 21:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋