2007-01-09 20:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by Myrah ( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hear voice of your heart...
if you wanna continue you can... or else leve him
2007-01-09 20:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him back. How often to guys try and stay with the girl? If he's chasing after you, he must really care.I know, I'm doing that at the moment. I love a girl, but I left the country. She's moved on and broken my heart. Trust me, he feels lonely right now...no matter how tough he acts...
2007-01-10 04:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by synjhindb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police need to know,how often he is around/following you.The ex needs to know that you want to be left alone.You could try a restraining order from court.But that doesn't stop them at first.Mostly it is just a paper that helps you feel ALITTLE safer,because then the police have alittle more power towards stopping him from bothering you.Be careful,and good luck!
2007-01-10 04:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to face him. Ask him why he is after you? If he request for affairs again, simply say no and warn him that in case of further chasing, you will be compelled to lodge a complain to the police.
2007-01-10 04:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree, request for help and advice from police if he's stalking. and the best thing not to do right now is to get another boyfriend. people could do the worst thing out of desperation. all the best. :)
2007-01-10 04:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple...
If you do not have a CURRENT BOY-FRIEND, and you think your EX is OK, go back to him if you wish, otherwise, take an action...
That's part of WHY Police Stations & Courts are there for you.
2007-01-10 04:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him once (politely) and make it clear to him that it's over between you two. If he still doesnt listen involve one of his family or friend and ask them to help him coe up with it. if it still doesnt work or if u cant find someone from him side to do ths then ask your family or friends to help.
judge the sitiuation first. if u think he can harm u in any way the go ahead and take legal help.
2007-01-10 04:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him straight-up that your not interested...you have to send him a firm message but not cold (unless you want to be)...you should probably tell someone if his "desperate chasing" is close to stalking.
2007-01-10 04:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is exactly that, an EX - which makes pathway to the NEXT
get a baseball bat and threaten him with breaking his knee caps if he comes near you!
2007-01-10 04:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Address it directly. Tell him exactly how you feel and don't leave any room for other possibilities. You have to hit this head on or it will only get worse.
2007-01-10 04:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u're not interested in him, make that clear. he'll hopefully go away. if he is stalking u, the cops are ones u should turn to. but remember, dont succumb to all the begging and pleading. it really isn't worth it.
2007-01-10 04:52:56 · answer #11 · answered by anand231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋