I already posted a question like this a few mins ago. My boyfriend has asked me on the phone "why do you love me?" and everytime this happens, I get flustered, embarassed..and really don't know what to say. I know I love him, and I know he loves me, I'm just not all that good with words. So now, I'm trying to send him an email to make up for my lack of answering his question...and I can't even f*ckin type anything! I've been staring at the screen for almost half an hour and I'm just blank...am I a horrible person? Do I even deserve to be with this guy? I don't want to type the obvious (sweet, funny, caring, selfless) as if I'm writing a list or something...ugh, I'm just really frustrated...Can anyone help me?
2007-01-09 20:42:28 · 21 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, first off you are not terrible!! It's hard to open up and tell someone how much they really do mean to you.
However, you do love him so just tell him straight up how you feel about him. Just don't think too hard about it, let the words flow from your heart onto your fingertips while writing him an e-mail.
Tell him what you love about him, why you enjoy spending time with him, what qualities you admire. Give him examples of how sweet, funny, caring and selfless he is and why you like those qualities about him!!
Good luck girl! :) You got it and congrats to y'alls great relationship and best of luck to y'all and God bless! :)
2007-01-09 20:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont think that your a harsh or terrible person some people have trouble expressing and emotionally their feelings.
if you deserve this guy it is up to you and does he deserve you!
first of all relax and then give him a call or if you can see him tonight or tomorrow then you can talk to him and tell him that you just have a hard time expressing emotions and say big words.
i hope this helps but request more info .
and why does he question your love?
it sounds like hes not sure if he loves you or he has some insecure problem.
maybe hes hoping you dont so he knows where he stands.
hell we don't know have a talk with him.and dont blame yourself or get angry at your self just calm down and relax and think it.
laters
2007-01-09 20:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him because he has a heart big and good enough to put up with you. Because you can't think of the right words to say to him and he still wants to be with you makes you love him even more. You feel like such a terrible person because you have trouble expressing your feelings for him, but rest assure you love him and you're equally grateful that he loves you too and that's all that matters.
2007-01-09 21:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just arent as good with flowery words as others. Honestly, if someone asked my why i love them, it would be a hard thing to express. Just tell him something like "You balance me out and make me feel complete when im with you" and "You make me feel so precious and loved" if you cant think of anything else. Sometimes its just not that easy and you have to revert back to an answer like that. Another way is instead of telling him what it is about HIM tell him what he does for you that makes you love him. Does he treat you with respect? Make you feel like a princess? A goddess?Does he make your heart flutter? Do you feel empty when hes not with you? Hopefully that helps a bit.
2007-01-09 20:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by BluesPoint_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt have to be obvious and cliche, you could write down things you actually do love about him. If its a problem with you not wanting to be with him and not you just being put on the spot, that is different all together.
2007-01-09 20:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something whcih made you love him. You might have seen something in him which is unique to himself and nobody else would do that. Or it may be that you like his kindness. Or may be that you like everything about him and it does not happen with others. Or may be that you are just mad about his dressing style. Or may be that he is good at heart. So there is something in him which made you love him. Try to find out what it is.
2007-01-09 20:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give examples of specific things he does to make you feel special. Does he open car doors for you? Does he give you little surprises? Does he do a good job of considering your feelings? Does he remember your birthday and anniversaries? Does he call just to see how your day is going? Etc. Give specifics.
2007-01-09 20:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you arn't a terrible person at all! just simply tell him you love him for him! explain to him you love him for all his faults and all his talents. sometimes feelings are too great to be put into words. maybe you can't tell him why you love him because there is simply no way to describe it. just tell him exactly how you feel and let it flow from your heart. don't think to hard about it. just invision him in your mind and tell him why this image makes you smile or feel happy.
2007-01-09 20:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen, you should tell him that you have been agonising for the last hour about how you can express your love for him, but that there are no words. thats all there is sweetheart. the concept is too big for words, and it leads me to believe that you actually ARE in love with him.
congratulations!
2007-01-09 20:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mastronaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just type the obvious. I tell my girlfriend the obvious and she thinks I'm sweet... And she tells me the obvious, and I love her.
2007-01-09 20:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋