I have a big problem. I have never had a long term relationship, I don't know what my problem is because my longest relationship lasted for about 4 months ?! And I am a serial dater, I have dated more guys then I can count, I really just want a stable relationship because the whole dating thing is really starting to get old.
About Me:
-I am 5'7(Height)
-119 pounds(Weight)
-23(Age)
-I am very particular about a lot of things and I am a clean freak, I always have to have everything and I mean everything organized
Here are things I have done in my past relationships:
-I have always cooked for my boyfriends (I am a great cook)
-I have called my past boyfriends at least once a day
-I never had sex with any of them because I don't believe in sex before marriage (I know I am a bit old fashioned)
2007-01-09 20:11:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am also very confident and outgoing.
2007-01-09 20:13:10 · update #1
that is all awsome... except most guys aren't old fashioned and need sex. really that could be it you just need to find a guy that loves you and is willing to hold off.
2007-01-09 20:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's examine this clean freak thing shall we....? Ask yourself WHY? Do you ever plan on having children? If you do, you shoud try and letting go a little. Your home will not be neat and tidy 100% of the time if you have kids. Chaos is the natural order of the their world. There's nothing wrong with being organized but don't force your values on another person. If you start dating a person and you do not think he is as neat as you need him to be be kind in ending it and move on. Also, do not think that you can pick up after this person the rest of his life and be happy. Sooner or later you or/and he will become resentful. I think that you should take a short break from dating and examine what are the types of things you can live with and what things you cannot. after this start looking for this person. He is out there somewhere. There is someone for everyone, you just haven't met him yet.
2007-01-09 20:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by kmax1232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that you scare guys away. sounds like everything needs to be one way (your way) or no way. remember, all of us are not "clean freaks". some of us need a little space and freedom. if you are calling all the time, they have no free time to think or reflect on the relationship. chances are they feel choked. i am trying not to be mean but even the way your question was posted in a demanding way. try to relax a little and maybe mr. right will appear.
2007-01-09 20:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know,because you sound like the perfect girl.I love that you cook and that you call once a day,I'm not sure if I like the part of the sex,But then your cooking should make up for it.
2007-01-09 20:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by MOGAMAT C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the "problem" with you is that you are old fashioned. Most people your age tend to want to have relationships as a convenience, not for love. Unfortunately, people like you are a dying breed.
2007-01-09 20:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the man who respect Ur personal honest so I'm single and looking for a woman who like 2 be clean and funny so if interested just email me OK :)
2007-01-09 20:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by mr. nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bet is it's a combination of your anal approach to housekeeping combined with the no sex policy. I wouldn't worry about the numbers, you're just 23. Like they say, you gotta kiss a LOT of frogs before you find a prince. Just keep weedin through them, you'll find the right one when the time is right. :)
2007-01-09 20:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're the one scaring them away. Try looking for a 'man'. Not just some random guy, but a man that embodies what you want. If he's smart, he'll stick around.
2007-01-09 20:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...let's think about this. You can't have a long term relationship and guys always leave you. Yeah, it must be that every guy in the world has a problem, not you.
2007-01-09 20:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by K M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your dating while you can; especially seeing how you don't put out. Your real long term boyfriend will appreciate that a whole lot in the future.
2007-01-09 20:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋