I noticed after I have sex with a woman after knowing her less than 24 hours they act like I owe them something(ex: respect, dates, etc). It would be one thing if they had self control and didn't, but doesn't that basically make them a slut if they get banged the first time around?
2007-01-09 19:29:08 · 19 answers · asked by jake w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your obviously giving them the impression that its going somewhere, you've created this situation yourself,
why anyone would want you is beyond me you sound like a complete ***, why is the women a slut cause they sleep with you the first time, you' also slept with them the first night you *****, double standard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 19:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Delete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. you truly are the player aren't you? 'fraid of commitment, are we?
here's a little education on women 101:
if you think a romp in the sack is just that for a woman- YOU ARE WRONG. 6 out of 10 women feel that sex is sealing the deal as far as a relationship. why? because sex isn't what men think it is. to women, sex is something that involves trust, sharing intimacy, showing emotion physically. men think it's just sex - no emotional commitment.
now, i understand that men need to get their rocks off every now and then, but there comes a point in time that if you don't want to be face to face with the problem you're going through - perhaps you should invest $50.00 to $100.00 for someone on the street corner. at least you wont have to put up with them wanting your respect, future dates or phone number. don't forget - it's cash up front.
2007-01-10 03:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman who slept with you the first time around still deserves respect, you lunkhead. She is a person just like you who enjoys a little pleasure and it doesn't make her a piece of trash because she didn't "control" herself! I suggest that you should go for women who ARE NOT looking for a relationship, and you also have a lot to learn about women.
2007-01-10 03:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you slept with her the first time too so, what does that make you? Not trying to bust your bubble but, there are some women out there that do the same things men do, only slicker.
When you meet the woman of "your dreams" I hope she doesn't treat you the way you treated women in the past. It does happen to the best of us.
2007-01-10 03:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1-Doesn't this make you a manho for sleeping with these women after knowing them less than 24 hours?
#2-Is it possible you might have said whatever you had to say to get them into bed in the first place, & maybe you screwed yourself cause you are, fortunately or not, a great lay?
2007-01-10 03:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Toni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was only recently thinking the same about men. It seems that when you get to my age (over 30) it's the men who want comittment right away. You sleep with them and they want to marry you. People say that it's a woman thing to want instant comittment but I would beg to differ. In my experience, it's the men who want me to never leave.
Believe me buddy.. one day, you will meet a girl which changes the way you think, even if she sleeps with you right away. If women didn't do this you would never get laid! She will break your heart and hurt you so f*cking bad, you'll be back on yahoo asking 'how do i mend a broken heart' and crying onto your keyboard.
2007-01-10 03:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Woooow!!! is your penis thin, strong and has average length? Then this is the secret. Men are different and so are ladies. I encountered that some women posses some magical genital organ that you wish not to leave her. This applies to men too and those meeting the above genital specs and more are qualified for. Good luck man! You are, I believe, one of those men. Then it's normal that ladies don't want to leave you. cooooool.
2007-01-10 04:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Reer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a Bed Buddy then you better make yourself clear that you are not on a date... that the meal et al is just payment for her sexual services...
If you take someone on a date and then get physical, then she has every right to think that you are dating and want everything that goes with that...
2007-01-10 04:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well, who's calling the kettle black here? It's a two way street, dude. You ask about her "self-control"....uh? where is yours??? I've only got one other thing to say to you in response to your question....grow up and learn some respect not only for the unlucky woman who actually slept with you, but for yourself as well. You've got a long way to go....
2007-01-10 03:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by idabearheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they go into it looking for a relationship in the first place and if sleeping with you in less than 24hrs. is making them a **** then doesn't that make you a **** puppy too?
2007-01-10 03:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋