My father passed away suddenly last week. how do i meet him?

Question

He passed away suddenly after a 5 hour coma. the previous night was a fun filled evening where he enjoyed himself and nobody had a hint that this would happen! I have so many questions to ask him...I want to meet him...either in my dreams or any other way..how do i do it?

Answer 1

I am sure by some answers you are finding there are some cruel people in this world. Ignore those who think they are being funny and are showing they have no respect for themselves or those around them.

You were lucky his final day was spent enjoying his company. Keep these memories. I know you miss him. It will take time not to get over it but to be able to talk about it and to learn to live without him.

I lost my father after he spent 5 months in excruciating pain a few years ago. On the anniversary of his death last year, I felt he was in the room with me. There are other times, I feel as if he is here.

When I was a kid, he would be up at 5 in the morning. I could hear the drawer pulls on his dresser knocking. I heard the drawer pulls at 5 in the morning the day after he left us. There are other times when I hear the drawer pulls on my dresser at 5 in the morning. There was no air moving in the house but the drawer pulls are making the exact same noise. It can only be him. (When he was alive, I told him I used to listen for the drawer pulls so I could get up. We were not permitted to get out of bed until one of my parents was awake. I told him this was the sound I used to listen for.)

When you want to speak to your father, just speak to him. He will be listening. I suggest if you are on the street or in the subway, or in the office, do not speak to him in such a manner those in the room will hear you. They will think you lot it. At times, you may feel he is with you.

Good luck, I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

My dad passed away one month ago; I still had so much to learn from him but sadly our time was cut short.

After my period of mourning, logic had to kick in. I personally don't believe in God or an afterlife, and I know I will never hear his voice again.
But this is my choice, my descision, and you are more than free to believe that you will see him in heaven.

But the question is, how can you see him now...right?

Well, firstly don't do anything to hurt yourself. Besides, if you comit suicide, that's a one way ticket to hell.

My suggestion to you (and I've only done this successfully on two occasions) is to have NON-prescription sleeping pills such as Nytol.
The active compnent in these pills is 50mg dyphenhydramine (exactly the same as the component in cold medication that makes you tired).
FOLLOW ALL DIRECTIONS ON THE BOTTLE CAREFULLY.

Anyway, these pills put you to sleep, but they do make you have VERY vivid dreams. And the best thing is that you actually remember them the next day!

What I'll usually do is to look at some photos of him for a few days so that he's all i've been thinking about and my brain is full of his memories...and then I'll have a pill and hopefully dream that i'm doing something with him. And it feels sooo real. Kind of like a virtual reality.

This has only worked 2 out of 10 times but they were worth it...I got to see him, hug him, cry with him...it was really comforting because it all felt real the next morning.

The remaining 8 times, I just had realy wierd dreams...nothing to do with anything....just really wierd.

NB:
1. Only do this when you don't have to wake up early the next day...these will keep you sleeping for a good 10 hours.
2. Ths is only temorary...you'll have to come to terms with his death. I haven't yet (but at least I know I have to)
3. Don't abuse it, you're not to have more than 4 pills in 2 weeks.
4. AGAIN, DON'T ABUSE IT! Your dad wouldnt want you to get hurt.

Answer 3

I wish I knew, honey. My Dad passed away 4 years ago and I have a lot of things I would like to ask him, too, and I would love to have him put his arms around me and give me another big hug, and tell me what to do. I miss him so much. §

I am so sorry about your loss, honey. May God comfort you.

By the way, the pain never goes and you will always feel the loss. It may ease a little with time, but it will NEVER go away, and I don't care how old you get, it is still there.

Answer 4

I am sorry for your lose. And will be praying for you. If your dad was a christian you can indeed meet him again one day if you recieve salvation. I have no other way of you seeing him again the dead in christ do not see death we pass over into heaven and live again. All others pass over into judgement and then the punishment which is hell. So these are the only two paths that exist for men and woman after death.

Answer 5

Let Him leave in Peace.
u can't meet Him only when u r died.
the spiritual world and Material world won't ever meet
so don't even think to do something spiritualy to meet ur father, its wrong idea from satan.
my father died when i was 8 years old, i don't know him, or remember Him. i even don't remember His face. but i let it go. and i know its hard for u, but u need to move on at least u know ur father and u have good memories and this is ur tresure, hold it very well and trust that ur father in a good place waiting for a day to c u again, a real seeing not fake from satan.

take care of urself

Answer 6

There is no other way to meet dead person.... if you wont stop thinking of things that you were not able to tell him then you will end up depress and frustrated. Let go and thank God that your father finally live in a holy land. where there is no pain, sorrow, hunger etc.

God Bless!

Answer 7

How wonderful and comforting that he had such a last day. I am glad for him, and for you it that it was so. All things in gods time. You may meet again but it is not for you to say when or how. If it happens, it happens. Be at peace.

Answer 8

Please leave this alone.If someone tells you they can contact your father,they lie.They may contact a demon,but your father is asleep.Was your father a christian?
You can pray and God will give you peace,but Honey your dad can not talk to you ever again.I am so sorry for your lost.I wish I had the words to help you.Prayer is the best I can do.
God Bless you.
Love Nana<><

Answer 9

Sorry about your loss .
"Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints". Psalm 116:15
He is safe in the arms of Jesus.
Death is inevitable .
One day or other all of will have to go through ...
Shall uphold you in my daily prayers .

Answer 10

It can be done . If both you and He are ready. this is done through the Soul.Prayers and medatation are two ways to start or at least try to reach each other.