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im in a relationship right now, for almost 2 yrs... but i feel so incomplete. we have a 2 month old baby, but i dont feel that im ready to commit..he wants to marry me but i still dont wanna get married coz i believe that im too young..(19 y/o), pls comment on this.

Answer 1

Too young to get married, but not too young to have sex and get pregnant? What were you thinking? Nevermind, you weren't thinking. I'm not saying that you should marry him just because of the child. If you don't love him, you're only going to make a bad problem worse.

You shouldn't have had sex before marriage. Getting pregnant is only one of the many problems that will arise from that. Good night!

Answer 2

Wow...maybe you should have thought about being "to young to commit" before having a baby. If you plan on being a good mother, you just committed yourself for the next 18 years! But if you don't feel like you are ready for marriage, don't do it. Even though a child deserves to have 2 committed parents and a stable home, you wouldn't really be helping the child by raising it in an unhappy home.

Answer 3

Not ready to commit but you have a two month old baby? I think you have a whole lot of surprises in store for you. You are going to need to do some very fast growing up. You are not only too young for the responsibilities of marriage, but more importantly, you are too young to have had a child.

Answer 4

I had a 2 year old son but im not also married to his father...y?? cause im not ready to commit yet.....being pregnant out of wedlock is not a sin we are just human who has an urge and beside i think your a good woman that you don't think to abort your baby....Don't go on something when your not yet ready and besides your are really too young...tell him to give your more time to think about his proposal...Marrying someone is not an easy decision....And being a good mom and to raise your baby is not by marriage certificate but by the way and how you will let your baby feel it. Goodluck!!

Answer 5

You have a baby. You need to do what is best for your child now. The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the hill, trust me. I was dating this wonderful girl when I was in High School for 3 years, but when we graduated I thought I needed to 'play the field'. It was a complete waste of time. The first girl I had was the best. Wish I wouldn't have thought I was missing out. I miss her still. She's moved on. You're risking the same... but you're also risking breaking up the family of your child. Too few children grow up in two parent families nowadays. She needs BOTH of her parents. She doesn't need a Mom who's out dating around.

Answer 6

as far as relationship goes.. it is not successful based on what you say "feel incomplete" and probably not getting any better.. so marriage will only make things worst

if i were in your position i'd take the baby and move on but he'll have to keep sending you money for raising the kid.. and probably will need to see the baby every week or month.. but thats just what i would do. nothing wrong with a step dad.

Answer 7

two yrs is nothing spend some time together try to get to know each other and then when u are 25-26 u can start talking about marriage,you were not suppose to have a child with him so soon.

having a child is a commitment for life,and marriage is not a commitment for life there is divorce.think about that before u get pregnant again.

Answer 8

too young to commit, but old enough to have a baby?

Answer 9

yes, u re too young to commit.

Answer 10

You are right, you are to young to be a wife, and you certainly are to irresponsible to be a mom.