I dont want my friend to date my cuz. Although i love her is not very mature when it comes to relationships. She is just too quick to get into them and doesn't really think before she acts. she has two kids by a guy she had been with for three years ("by mistake") and she is only 20. Bottom line, i love her but in relationships she brings the drama.
Anyway she asked me to hook her up with my cuz after only meeting him for a few hours and asked me to ask if he was interested. When i hesitated she asked if it was because i thought she was gonna get pregnant by him. i couldn't say anything after that to lead her to believe that i thought she wasn't good enough. i know, i know but she is heartbroken i didn't want to hurt her feelings. she is a great person but she makes horrible choices and i dont want her to get my cuz tangled in drama. anyway they've only talked for 2 days and already in comes the dramatics. I dont want it to go any further. what do i do? should i do anything?
2007-01-09 19:18:39 · 3 answers · asked by nya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beeg story. no time.
2007-01-09 19:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend obviously is very insecure. She needs a man in her life to complete it. She doesn't know what type she wants. Very dangerous.
Even if you refuse, she will still find other guys. She will, trust me.
2007-01-10 03:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont set them up, tell her you dont want to be stuck in the middle of this, and if she's interested in him she will have to set it up herself, perhaps also have a word with your cuz and let him know what you think
Feel sorry for you its a tough one, good luck!!
2007-01-10 03:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋