ok so i still havent gotten this..how the hell do ppl get together? what am i missing in? i am 19 and in college, i am social, happy and polite person..but i have never seen a guy being interested in me enough to ask me out? why? are they scared or something? whats going on? help.....
2007-01-09 19:18:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
concentrate on your education. trust me you are not missin nothin all the losers will be waitin when u get done
2007-01-09 19:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am single and been single for a year and nine months, and though sometimes I'm in a rush and wishing to find that someone to be with, I know that if I go out and look for it i'll never find it. It's like looking for your favorite sweater, your never going to find it if you keep looking for it but if you give it a rest you'll see that it was right in front of you. I'm turning 19 this year and well I'm just going to let things go as they're supposed to come. You should try it, and not be in a rush.
2007-01-10 03:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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f you are of average appearence or better, then they noticed you.
I'll tell you what I tell all girls. You can have a boyfriend if you look for any average looking guy, walk up to him and say, "Do you have a girlfriend?" If he says no, then say, "Okay, well you and I are going out toight to ....(name place)"
Guys like most average or above looking girls. This will get you a date for sure, if not on the first try, by the third or fifth.
2007-01-10 03:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. maybe guys there are just shy. but first, you gotta like someone. you can't just want to be in a relationship because you want the status. love someone then show him that you love him, and if he feels the same too, he'll come to you one day. one thing i noticed in my school, most pretty girls are single, so just be patient. everyone always has a suitable someone, out there, just 'not discovered' yet.
anyway, all the best in finding your right guy, and choose wisely! =)
2007-01-10 03:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of problems that you should be focusing on rather than having no boyf at all...i had my first bf very late..but now, my first seem to be my last as well...
so its not basically on the age... it's more on the perfect timing and the right guy for you...
2007-01-10 03:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok for a girl to also approach a guy.try it.if ther is a guy that you really like go ahead and say hi he might just be waiting for a sign from you because guys tend to be afraid sometimes to approach us.
2007-01-10 03:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by laylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. Perhaps you just haven't come across the right guy yet. Just be yourself. Continue to be friendly and approachable... it'll happen.
2007-01-10 03:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Vance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient
wait for the arrangement of heaven
maybe ur fate havent shown yet
good luck!!
2007-01-10 03:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by teh c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz you havent called me yet
2007-01-10 03:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jargon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they re scared. boys this age re shy. it doesn't mean u should hang on them first, just wait with dignity. i am sure u will find the one, after all everybody does
2007-01-10 03:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋