me and my girl were together for almost 5 years. she broke it off because she said she wanted time for herself and doesnt know if she wants to get back with me (we broke up about 2 months ago) we still see eachother, and still have sex. but we tend to argue alot and she ends up tellin me that she dont want to be together, and tells me to move on. but we just had sex a couple days. and the crazy thing is, she allows me to take photos of her nude. is she playing games or she still wants to be together, just not now?
2007-01-09 19:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Hoang Giao V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she is confused i think you both need to sit down and have a good talk she obviously still likes you or she wouldnt be having sex with you
2007-01-09 19:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being together for 5 years it's going to be hard to let a person go even if you know you no longer want to be with them. I think she's having a problem letting you go which is why she's still having sex with you, it's as if she doesn't want you but by having sex with you she still has a hold over you so no other girl can get a look in! It's time for you to put your foot down & tell her to stop calling if all she wants is sex followed by an argument. And also tell her that you would move on if only she'd make up her mind about whether she wants to be with you or not! I'd give her a wide berth for a while just until she's figured out what she wants!
2007-01-10 03:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will find out if she wants to get back, is by cutting your ties with her stop sleeping with her and limit communication for a while.... She will then think you are moving on, and if she really does care for you she will come running back, becuase she thinks she is losing you!!!! All the time you play along with her games she will continue, becuase she believes that you will not go any where and will allow her to play you!!! She is either getting a huge power trip on playing you or there is another guy involved here!!!!! So stop letting her play you!!!!! then you will find out if she truely cares.
2007-01-10 03:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by cranberry queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the arguments about?
In my opinion I would move on, she is either using you for the sex or is generally confused about what she wants. But I think if you back off, stop the photos etc and maybe start dating again, she'll realise she'll losing a good thing and stop messing you around.
Good luck mate
2007-01-10 04:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe.
sounds like u both enjoy the sex but she doesnt like she wants more right now.
i would take stock of the situation and consider if this is what you really want.
if its not then dont let her play games with you ie have sex on a tap.
it may make her realise that she does want you afterall....
2007-01-10 04:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the x wife was like that sex during our marrage was ok but when we split it became out of this world we did it everywhere which meant we couldnt get over each other nip it in the bud now less pain all around
2007-01-13 18:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by boxer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be the same gf who might or might not be pregnant and has you racing all over the country for to satisfy her craving for a particular food?
I don't think so.
2007-01-10 03:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i cant understand too why she still allow you to to sex with her then telling you she wants time for herself.... talk to her and try to know why she's still want to be with you
2007-01-10 03:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by nej24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. she uses u as a temporary device to spend time while she is on a quest for someone else. she just hasn't found suitable one yet
2007-01-10 03:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she wants to be with you. She sounds like a little **** tease. Better off without her.
2007-01-10 03:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋