First of all, i used to be a lesbian and needless to say, god changed my life around. The girl that I last dated is now my best friend. We do not talk about what we did nor do we act on it. We are strictly best friends. She is awesome. She has been there for me when noone else has. Even though we cant get along sometimes I still love her so much. I no longer look at girls the way I once did, but I still look at her that way sometimes. The key word here is sometimes. Sometimes I want her like that and sometimes I dont. I want her to find a good guy oneday and I know she will and so will I. Sometimes when we argue I just want her to find someone and the other times I dont. Im so confused. I just want to get over the feelings I have. It hurts so bad sometime. I miss her so much. How do I get over the intense feeling? Ive told her how I felt but she dont believe me.
2007-01-09 19:03:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to go back to God for this one. He is faithful to be with you and see you through this. There is always temptation for those who decide to follow God but remember that God is bigger than all that and if you stay focused on Him, you'll be amazed at how your life turns around. Talk to Him today. He loves you!!!
2007-01-09 19:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever makes you happy. If it is being Bi-sexual and liking both men and women so be it. if you have feelings for this girl, then chances are until you see if things work or dont work your always goint to wonder. Try it out. If you decide you want to stick to strictly men, then you'll know how you want to live your life and you wont be so confused. And you cant help who does and who doesnt attract you. If your religion doesn't approve of it, then maybe it's time to find a new one?
2007-01-09 19:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you happier, being a lesbian or serving god?
From the sounds of this little rant, you're extremely conflicted, and you may not be focusing on the right problem. If your religion doesn't allow you to love those that make you happiest, maybe it's time to find a new religion.
2007-01-09 19:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Omniscience 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to ask yourself who you will be spending eternity with-God or your girlfriend. If you've given your life to Christ then your commitment is to him first.
There is nothing wrong with being friends with and old lover but if she is a constant temptation to you then maybe you should consider not seeing her, at least for a time. When you have grown in Christ and are strong enough as a Christian that you don't feel drawn to this sin anymore then try renewing the friendship and see what happens. If you are still drawn to her then stop seeing her for good.
Alcoholics don't go to bars, recovering gambling addicts don't go to casinos, and Christians who were homosexuals don't hang around with former lovers they can't resist. Don't deliberately place yourself in a situation where temptation is a constant problem.
If you are a Christian then it is Christ who has suffered and died for your sake. Don't forget Who it is that has bought and paid for you.
2007-01-09 19:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In truth unhappiness or happiness is one's possess state of brain which predominantly offers with our feelings headquartered on our existence difficulty and situations. Unfulfilled wants and uncertainties of the continuity of the comforts in existence reason unhappiness in us. Mainly it's human nature to search happiness from others and while we do not discover the predicted happiness from others it result in unhappiness. To triumph over the unhappiness is feasible simplest via self attention and attention of our possess self instead to waste the existence time in seeking to recognise others. If you wish candy culmination from a tree, it's in it is unseen seeds and roots however now not in it is external branches that are noticeable. Try tou study EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) to conquer unhappiness, and likewise begin doing a little fascinating bodily pastime like cooking, gambling, strolling, studying, riding, fishing, serving to the elderly people and gambling with kids and so forth.
2016-09-03 19:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bi-sexual. It's OK to be dating a man and a woman at the same time. Usually your male partner is really cool with that. If she doesn't believe you, it's going to be hard for her too. Just keep telling her how you feel. You guys have a normal friendship/relationship as any other person does. If it was meant to be, it is meant to be.
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2007-01-09 19:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only one in this world that you can turn to in this world, that understands you and what you are going through is god. God can and will give you comfort and peace if you just let him.
2007-01-09 19:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by timgisme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a man that you can love and put your energy into
2007-01-09 19:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur this SOMETIMES is now!!!
yes! its time that u both need an apposite sex
2007-01-09 19:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋