back to the guy i want to have fun with who is married and who is my co-worker.i dont want to get pregnant but i think he doesnt mind if i do.i asked him before why he didnt have kids with his wife and he said because he didnt think he would make a good father but now it seems as if he doesnt mind having one @ 40
2007-01-09 18:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by laylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh lord please don't do that and find you someone who can give you the love and time that you deserve and have a child with your own husband one day and send that man home to his wife it's just not worth it. He's there today and gone tomorrow don't do that to yourself or his wife.
2007-01-09 18:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's willing to do it with you because he has ZERO responsibilites associated with you. He can leave anytime he wants to and ALWAYS deny you and the baby.
What kind of life are you going to live? Are you willing to put up your kids welfare on this? Seriously, are you that lonely? If you are, get a pet. Don't go ruining your life, that guys' life, his family's life, your baby's life. You're going to affect so many people, do you really want that on your conscience?
Are you that selfish? Honestly, it's about getting what you want and that is selfishness, especially when you know you have to come on the internet and get justification from strangers.
If you can't listen to your conscience and you'll listen to some bad advice, it'll seem like you won't be responsible for your screw up.
BUT...
Listen, you're the one that's going to have to live with the consequences, not us.
2007-01-09 18:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUGE MISTAKE!
DON'T DO IT!
I can't stress this enough. It is a big mistake to have extramarital sex with a coworker who's married. This would not make life happy for anyone!
RUN AWAY AND DON'T THINK ABOUT IT AGAIN!
Any child that you created has the right to be raised by two parents who are married to each other and who love each other, not just two people who are unattached to each other who had an office fling.
BAD IDEA!!!
2007-01-09 18:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. Don't start a dead-end relationship with a cheater.
2007-01-09 19:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO it, you only live once.
that will break his marriage (or what is left of it) up for sure
2007-01-09 18:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋