my boyfriend of four months just broke up with me 4 days ago. idk why ! i thought he loved me. we were so close. we saw each other like everyday. i even met his whole family . this break up is really hard for me because i lost my virginity to him (but that was like 2 months ago before he broke up with me i don`t cry or anything - ppl think i`m already over it, but honestly; i`m not. i just put a smile on my face & hide the pain. now that i think of it, i think he just used me to get in my pants. idk why he would break up with me! ... he used to tell me how much he loved me and how he would never leave me. i kept calling him baq but he didn`t want to talk so i just let it go. than when i went online he was telling me some stuff like how he had sex with his gf and alot of other girls while he was with me. it really hurt me -i made it seem like i didnt care but i did , i was heartbroken. i never knew a person i loved so much could make feel like nothing in such little time.i`m so hurt
2007-01-09 18:32:07 · 8 answers · asked by s0hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yours is unfortunately a story that happens a lot and I am sorry for your pain. All I can do is offer you hope for the future because you do have one. This situation is something you must learn from so as not to make the same mistake again. In life we think, we learn, we live, we grow and once and a while we get to smile. Put a smile back on your face dear and forget about Mr. wrong guy because he is not worthy of your time. The best things in life are worth waiting for so take your time and enjoy each day with a new sense of self and be happy in your heart.
2007-01-09 18:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, he was making fool of you all these days. He was a moron. You were with wrong guy. Thank God that he saved you from any further damage. In my view, he never loved you and you have written that yourself.
Thank your stars for saving you from a really bad life with him. Forget him, he is not worth your time. If you keep remembering him, you will keep suffering and he will be enjoying life unaffected. So it will be your loss. Pick yourself over him. Focus on nice things in life. Let me guarantee you that one day you will forget it like a bad dream and you will find someone really good, who will be worthy of your love.
Do a few things you liked to do, talk to your friends, don't give him a damn and this hurt feeling will go.
2007-01-10 02:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't anyone tell you not to have sex before you were married?
This is a big reason why.
Now, you'll always be suspicious if a guys is going to leave you after you give it up. I feel so sorry for you.
It'll happen again. Why don't you wait until a guy commits to you with marriage, tells you you're the world to him and he wants you as the mother of his children?
Doesn't that seem better than being used? You will always get used as long as you give it up to a guy that you have no commitment to.
They'll say whatever you need to hear to give it up.
Be careful.
2007-01-10 02:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really hope u get over it...its too bad tht he did such a thing.. but u must carry on with ur life.. its not ur life is over with him... u will find a better guy sooner or later... till then try to forget bout him.. it would take time.. but u will gradually..
all the best... n don't be sad or upset. this is just part of ur life there is more of better days n happiness to come.!
2007-01-10 02:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like an a#1 jerk to me(can't really say what i think here), but if he were back in texas we would have dragged him out to the parking lot for a little attitude adjustment. it just ain't right to treat anyone like that. hold your head up honey and keep your guard up a little more next time.
2007-01-10 02:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by bones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll live. I many sound callous but I went out with a guy for three years and we broke up and I got over it. You'll get over it. You just sound a little young. Grow up
2007-01-10 02:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not worth friendship even leave alone love.Come out of this situation as fast as you can. i know it is easier said than done,but dont be tough on yourself by crying over him.
2007-01-10 02:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( sorry
2007-01-10 02:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋