Got my first girl, at age 20, i've never been kissed. We gone out once, talk on the phone all the time. When's an appropriate time to kiss?
Cuz this my first girl, and she has a son from a previous relationship, i want to move slow.
2007-01-09 18:29:43 · 14 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have no experience with this just so you know
2007-01-09 18:36:44 · update #1
What about being open [that's a novelty for some!] tell her you want to and why you're 'holding back' [?]
There's a word for that is called hmmm... respect! that's it.
I expect she'll pash you something fierce!
Nice guys do sometimes win.
2007-01-09 18:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by bejay 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She will let you know with body language clues when she's ready to be kissed, but I always think it's super sweet if the guys asks "can I kiss you?" in a flirtatious, teasing kind of way right before it happens. Probably the second or at the very most the third time you go out you guys should be comfortable enough to kiss, but it's different for everyone. I had been flirting/spending time with my now boyfriend for almost a month when he finally kissed me; it was his first kiss (but not mine) so I at least understood why he waited so long. Be open with your girlfriend about your nervousness and your desire to take things slow. I know for me it was a really big relief to know I wasn't going to have to be trying to have sex in a dorm room praying my roommate didn't come home in the middle of it within the foreseeable future! Good luck!
2007-01-10 02:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you better suprice her by taking her out and give her a small treat but not with your friends just both of you alone ok then after having small meal and have some very sweet desert and give her a small quick kiss and mumer to her ear "this is a small suprice for you my love"got it wow !try it very romantic slow moving wish u all the best!
2007-01-10 02:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Dimiz♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll know when the time is right.You'll just feel it.When you guys are staring into each others eyes or just having a lot of fun and you're laughing and happy! Go in for the kill! lol it's nothing to it but to do it, good luck.
2007-01-10 02:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
An appropriate time is when she makes it obvious she won't back away, and the mood seems right.
She will make it known by coming in closer to you, giving you the opportunity. She will also hold your gaze, waiting for it.
2007-01-10 02:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever you feel the time is right, but don't wait too long. See how the next date goes and if the moment is right, just go for it!
2007-01-10 02:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by dolce 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it...you sound sweet and you will know when the time is right! It just usually happens when both people are feeling it.
2007-01-10 02:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Slow is ok...but don't be to slow because if she already has experience she has certian needs that need to be met.
2007-01-10 02:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kiss her whenever you want. and don't worry i didnt get my first kiss till i was 17 (a month away from my 18th bday). she'll help you out
2007-01-10 02:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should go as slow or fast as you want..always trust the voice inside that tells you how to act...
2007-01-10 02:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by beaglemommers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋