We been together for two years.He snaps at me when I ask him a question.He gives me dirty looks.He's even flirting with another women, the way he use to flirt with me.It seems like he only likes me when we have sex.He can't even look at me when I try to talk to him, and he always yells at me.Does he like me like he says he does.Why doesn't he just leave me alone.
2007-01-09 18:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by cache2u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump his ***!
2007-01-09 18:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend went through the same thing for 3 1/2 years. Treated her like ****...avoided her, took advantage of her all the time, only wanted her around when it was convenient for him & put her down a lot (especially behind her back). When I finally got to meet her, she was nothing like he portrayed her. She has a kind heart and treated him like a king, but would continue to accept the way he treated her. She did end up ending the relationship, and now he constantly bugs her to go back to him. You need to get out while you can. Love is the most complicated feeling of all. But if you stay and allow this to happen, you will lose your self esteem, respect for yourself, and feel as though you are not worthy of anyone else. Maybe if you leave, the old saying "you don't know what you've got til it's gone" will ring true for him and he will wake up and realize what he has! Good Luck
2007-01-10 02:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny
i'm glad u came to out to ask for help
that means u sense there is something wrong and believe u me,in a case like this every one will be your mirror and i will like u to be open minded so dont make decisions based on emotions...make your decisions on these facts you've written out here
He snaps at you because he is bored and no longer respects you
and that is the same reason he gives you dirty looks and flirts with other women
he seems to like you during sex coz he sees you as a sex object and that is the only reason he wants you around
Probably he does not want to leave you alone now coz he does not want to be the first to come out just like that...but sure he is sending signals
A guy who really likes you will not want you just for sex,he will want to be with you,looking forward to meeting you and not want to hurt you
Rem,u are not a sex object,you should'nt be loved coz of sex..u should be loved because u are u and u are fun to be with
Dont stay where u are not appreciated,coz the more u try to gain acceptance,the more frustrated you get
All the best
2007-01-10 03:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married to him. You have a choice as to whether or not you put up with that kind of treatment. He's not being completely honest about the way he feels. There should be no doubts. Listen to your gut. It's telling you things you don't particularly want to know but you need to know, for your own peace of mind. Make yourself a list of the qualities you think are absolutely neccessary in a good relationship, such as mutual honesty, trust, respect, communication, etc. Then make a list of the qualities you think are absolutely not allowable in a relationship, such as cheating, lying, physical abuse, mental abuse, neglect of responsibilities toward achieving and maintaining a good relationship, etc. Then respect yourself enough to not settle for less. Your life is about you, not him. If you don't respect yourself, others wont respect you either. So YOU have to make the decision as to where your relationship goes with consideration to the facts, not the fantasy.
2007-01-10 02:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you better take a decision so faster than other things cas u have to make your life perfect than those up coming problems so first of all u better tell that boy that im not ready to act like the way you tell and next step is tell straight to his face his way of acting is not suitable for me and ask him weather is he happy with me or not this is not way of rude just do and see good luck
2007-01-10 02:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Dimiz♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt the one for you. you tell him right away tht u hv had enough of him n tht he cant treat u like **** anymore. tell him to go find another girl.. it may b tough but its better than been treated dirty.
its best to forget him n carry on with ur life.... ur perfect guy will come sooner or later... byt he is definetly not the one.
2007-01-10 02:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dosent like you he only says that because he wants the sex im a guy and if i can flirt with other girls while still having a main gurl id be the biggist player i cAn be
2007-01-10 02:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
search for another one
2007-01-10 02:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by zeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋