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Why do guys and girls get so jealous of friends????
I mean if your not flirting and just being nice whats the problem?

2007-01-09 18:20:47 · 20 answers · asked by sherrie C 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

20 answers

Control. Jealousy comes from feeling powerless to control the emotional response of other people you wish to be close to.
It is a selfish reaction to feeling insecure.

2007-01-09 18:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0 0

Jealousy is a antural and possesisve instinct of animals.
Humans maybe humans but humans are still mammals and mammals are still animals.
Humans are bolilogical hardwired to protect their belongings etc.
Evolution has choosen this trait for survival.
How'dya think if we don't care?
We would have no problem of being nice if your defintion of nice is to spend 5% of your time to other people and the rest would be 80% to us.
Being mean to everyone and being nice to your GF - BF works better because the guy/girl will feel special.
a.k.a Bad Boy effect.
But to really answer your question define NICE? AND JUST BEING NICE.

2007-01-10 02:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The issue is how much confidence you have in yourself. People get jealous cuz they feel the other may be cheating. Because the jealous one cheats then the jealous one thinks the other person will.

2007-01-10 02:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0 0

They can't help it, that's nature. I'm personally not a jealous person, but I totally understand it. People can be very territorial, even about another human, and don't want to feel they can lose to another.

2007-01-10 02:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0 0

Im having this whole jealously issue right now that im trying to overcome. I think alot of it is insecurity. I mean, I should trust my BF, he hasnt done anything to show that I shouldnt, but I think its the insecurity with myself. Like, im not good enough.

2007-01-10 02:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Immortal Angel 1 · 0 0

thats simple, fear. at one point or another we have all lost something no matter how big or small and people are the hardest thing to lose. so even a friendship at times can make a person feel like there loseing someone they care for,

at least that what i think hope it helps

2007-01-10 02:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by MellowMike03 1 · 0 0

people get jealous when they have something to hide.
also people get jealous because they think they will loss everything if they dont have that person. jealousy is a strange mistress.

2007-01-10 02:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0 0

Emotions Out of control.

2007-01-10 02:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0 0

Its the insecurity issue dear,jealousy arises out of insecurity.

2007-01-10 02:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0 0

there mad, cuz they probably like that person that your flirting with, and are jealous cuz they know you can get them and think that person is interested in you instead of them.

2007-01-10 02:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by KizaL 2 · 0 0

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