You can't be everything to your girlfriend. You can be a lot of things, but you can't be everything. Nor can she be everything to you. That's why you have other friends, men and women friends both. It's why you have family that you rely upon
Certain things will be expected of you if you are in a relationship: trust, decent communication skills, appropriate boundaries, sexual compatibility, emotional maturity to handle the ups and downs of being in a relationship with somebody.
That's what most emotionally mature people want and need from relationships. But you can't be everything to her. It's not possible. It's also not healthy.
2007-01-09 18:36:39
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answered by Anonymous
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i'ld want men to respect my wishes, listen to what i have to say and change if he thinks it's reasonable, show how much he loves me instead of saying "i love you" or promising gifts, be consistent in his actions, share openly with me whenever something's bothering him, give me advice/suggestion when i need it, give me a shoulder to cry on and a comforting hand/words, tell a joke if i'm too serious, and most importantly, just BE HIMSELF!!! :)
2007-01-10 02:45:53
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answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6
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