Here's the story. I met this guy who i really really like. We got together for about 2 weeks. Everything was going well until recently, he found out that he is going off to America in August. Now my question is, should i continue to stay with him til he leaves and worry about getting hurt later, or should i leave and suffer the pain now. The problem i'm having now is that when i don't see him, i feel so sad but when i'm with him, i'm happy. what do i do?
2007-01-09 17:36:04 · 14 answers · asked by celine_csk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay with him until the end. You will be sorry if you dont. MAKE THE MOST OF IT....and you never know you might get 2 be as lucky as this guy you are seeing(that is moving to AMERICA)BECAUSE America ROCKS!!! Its a Awesome Country to live in..YOU will LOVE IT.
2007-01-09 17:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would stick it out with him until august and see were things go. You dont want to leave it now and then regret it forever...you never know he could be the love of your life so don't like it go...plus august is a long 7 months away who knows what could happen between now and then
2007-01-09 17:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know you are going to suffer, why not prolong it. It may make it harder to let go, but you buy yourself sometime. 2 weeks isnt alot but alot can happen during that time. If this man means that much to you, share it. If not move on after he is gone. Out of Sight , Out of Mind!
2007-01-09 17:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard call...
Have you talked to him about how he feels about this. Regardless you are going to be hurt when he goes. So why not have fun until it happens. If you find you get depressed when you see him and think of him leaving constantly... then I would say let him go.
2007-01-09 17:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is difficult to get. So, if you think that you simply can't live without him, then, you should go with him. Anyway, I hope you think twice before you make the decision. You should not regret with the decision you make today.
2007-01-09 17:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Melon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to the voices in your head. My voices are loud and sometimes they yell at me. But usually they're ok. My doctors gave me some medicine to make the voices go away but sometimes I hear them anyway. They are my friends. Listen to them. They will guide you.
2007-01-09 17:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only gonna hurt more later on so its up to you to decide, do you wanna be hurt now and get over it quicker or get really really hurt later and take longer to get over him?
2007-01-09 17:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LET HIM GO! IF you guys are meant to be, it'll work. if your happy with him try to work it out while he's in america... It'll be tough but btwn calling and letters i think you'll be ok.
2007-01-09 17:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by howellgirl54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him loose now and start dealing with ur pain.Cus u need to to get healed.
2007-01-09 17:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay you never know he may come back to u if not well plenty more fish in the sea love
2007-01-09 17:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lyn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋