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It seems like the nicer a guy gets, the more girls pull away.

I have a close friend from class. She has 2 groups of friends: "homies" who are like brothers to her and "**** buddies". Why would she want guys who are so worthless? It can't be because of so many reasons that I hear.

We have noticed that we have a lot in common. She knows that I am somewhat "kinky" and she knows I can protect her from anyone or anything: I'm 5ft. 11in. tall, I weigh 227lbs., and I can bench-press 200lbs. Did I mention that I look like Russel Crowe in 'Gladiator'?

What is the problem!?!

2007-01-09 17:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jock BOD w/ a geek's wits 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Maybe she is too young too appreciate a good guy. We all go through a bad boy stage when we start the dating game because they are challenging. Where nice guys pretty much let us know we have them so we get bored easily. Its an article in www.askmen.com its pretty informative on all relationship issues. The main thing is staying a challenge and good or bad you might get the girl. But don't be too big of a challenge. And it also works vice versa.
I hope i helped.
Good luck

2007-01-09 17:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by OOhSooFlyyyy....... 2 · 0 0

First of all, what about you being kinky makes you a nice guy? Seems like you are not after a real relationship with this girl (which is fine for some). That would make me think that she puts you into one of the 2 groups you mentioned.

That said, you should break out of whichever group and make a move (not a strong one). Might as well show some interest in her... doesn't matter how "good looking" you are if you can make up for it in charisma and personality. Make a statement and see how it goes... take it slow my friend. Patience is key in getting a good girl.

2007-01-10 08:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by lennyogarc 2 · 0 0

Well i think it starts off with young women being aproached by 'player' types at a young age. The nice guys are often to shy to make the moves so the players get in first the young girls get attatched and a habbit is formed.

2007-01-09 17:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dude, you should be benching well over 200 with that kind of body weight. I press 310 and I weigh 190. Next. just becuase you are big(fat) you could easily lose to a smaller guy of 165 if he is a real fighter. Next lesson- women like a challenge and to be treated like crap sometimes. So stop being nice and she will love you for it.

2007-01-09 17:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

simply be sufferer. im a woman that hasnt fallen for the jerk form and am ready round for a pleasant man, however pleasant men arent continually the excellent both. Just be sufferer, and the individual with a view to love you for who you're will come alongside. except, if you happen to get all of the women now, you can also come to be a jerk. so allow lifestyles take its direction, and dont feel the stereotype that each one women wish a nasty boy. intent its no longer actual.

2016-09-03 19:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Not all girls are like that. Regardless of how she may feel, it's entirely possible that she's either not ready for or afraid of commitment. If she doesn't want to be with you then why would you want to be with her? She's obviously missing out. Find someone who will really appreciate your "nice guy" qualities (and your rugged good looks).

2007-01-09 17:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 5 · 0 0

you have to play a little hard to get, it's what gets girls going

try not paying attention to her and not being so overly nice. I'm not saying you should be mean, but start mentioning other chicks...maybe she'll get jealous?

Also, remember not to forget all the "nice chicks" out there who feel just as forgotten as you do. They finish last, too, you know.

2007-01-09 17:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Karolina 2 · 1 0

Haha...I feel the same way with guys though...I think people are honestly attracted to people that are butt heads to them.

And really, who cares if you finish last? In love, it doesn't matter whether you find someone today or in 10 years, because when you meet that special someone, that is all that matters.

2007-01-09 17:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Well for me they don't. ButI guess it's that some girls are use to guys being jerks and when they meet a nice guy they pull away cuz they're not use to being treated that way

2007-01-09 17:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 1 0

nice guys finish last because they let everyone else start the race before them, you know "ladies first"

i just called everyone in the world a chick because im the nicest everest and started the race last.

eat it you dude turned chick-EN

2007-01-09 17:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0 0

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