he is studing abroad,he is so sweet and romantic.we texting alot during a day.he even has proposed me,but he likes to partying and going to clubs alot,we have met only for 2 months and then he left,i don't know him well to trust him,how can i be sure he is not with hookers at nights mentioning he has a bad friends there!!?or what if he finds someone sweeter and more attractive?
2007-01-09 17:16:04 · 13 answers · asked by susie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is essential in any relationship, be it with a loved one or a friend. It is the very glue that holds that bond together. But it is a fragile thing. It takes only suspicion, not proof to take it all away. And once the trust is gone, the relationship is no more.
2007-01-09 17:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys only met 2 months ago? And he ALREADY asked you to marry him? How old are you guys? In my opinion you guys should get to know each other a lot longer than 2 months b4 getting married.
Back to your question...... I think the only way you can be sure is if you are with him 24/7. Since that is impossible, you just have to trust him. If you do not have trust then you have nothing.
2007-01-09 17:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me he's cheating
You've only known him for a few months then he left, no good can come from that. He may like you but your not his girlfriend OK. If he is in another country and he's good with woman he will be getting laid every chance he gets. Make him take an STD test before you junp back into bed with him girls in other countries dont care sometimes.
2007-01-09 17:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, u could keep in options a million ingredient: believe is the biggest ingredient between a pair. without believe, u won't be able to do some thing jointly! Ask your coronary heart, has him received your believe over the time? If he has proved that he worths it, then what are u worring now? i think he also has positioned his believe on u! it really is why he undergo to leave u for the vacation. putting away the doubts and options of others, u could believe your coronary heart and your guy. U would get damage contained sooner or later(i comprehend it truly is what u project), yet u could grant a try... supply him a attempt to he will teach to u.
2016-12-28 14:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way you can or should try to control this guy. He either is or is not going to be faithful, have you ever thought he might be thinking the same about you. So stop with the guess work and make agreements that both of you will follow, and then learn to trust
2007-01-09 17:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about that!There is nothing to make you know what is going on when he's far from you!If you really like him try to trust him and when he'll be with you try to have a good time and show confidence too.Don't let him know you are jeaulos b/c this is the begining of the relantioship and you don't to make him run away from you.
2007-01-09 17:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he would spend a lot of time with you. And not act weird sometimes when you mention other girls. What many do is use a friend he doesnt know and she has to try to get in with him, if he accepts you know the deal?
2007-01-09 17:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by playaxn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry that much! calm down it was only 2 months. if u guys are serious talk to him about it, say something like "i dont mind u partying and having fun, i love you very much and i dont wnat anything bad happening in our relationship to cause that" if it doesnt work, hes not worth it
2007-01-09 17:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will go on and tell u 2 month is way to soon to even think of marrieing him and if ur haveing probs it deff wont work out i am not much on gf's my self idk how many times i have been hurt just trying to keep it form happening to others i am shure more ppl will back me on this btw(by the way ) some one please help me with my question
2007-01-09 17:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by allen_airborn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you think you going to find the answers here ,on A/Q ?
2007-01-09 17:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋