I have a foot fetish and I really want to tell my girlfriend of 8 months that I have a foot fetish but im afraid as to how she will react. I dont want to ruin our relationship but she has sexy *** feet and I can't take it anymore.So how do I tell her that I like her feet??
2007-01-09
17:15:41
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datjerseykidd13
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dammm ma u is cute liz lol. But I hope she doesnt like my feet Im juss hoping she just accepts me for likin her feet. and to jennifer thank you that sounds like good advice but I dont know how to get to the point where Im rubbin her feet and telling her my fetish
2007-01-09
17:26:08 ·
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Compliment her on how great her feet look. As you kiss her all over, start including the feet too, it's romantic, it shows that you love all of her, from top to bottom. Just don't get carried away and don't give her feet any extra attention at first. Then after she's comfortable with you touching and kissing her feet, you can tell her sometime, "you know, I don't know why, but I think your feet are so cute, I just want to kiss them and suck on them, I hope you don't think it's weird..." By then she probably won't care. I would also suggest taking really good care of your own feet so that it's a little easier for her to understand, or at least doesn't gross her out.
I'm a big believer in honesty, and in most cases I would just tell her what's on my mind. But it sounds like you're worried she might not understand. Many people get freaked out very easily when you try something new with them in bed. So I would slowly ease her in to this one. She'll obviously know eventually that you really like this stuff, but let this be sort of a voyage of discovery for both of you.
Again, not my typical approach, but you're not really lying to her either. You just need to give her time to adjust.
Good luck.
2007-01-09 17:28:26
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answered by yishor 4
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After 8 months you should be able to tell her. My ex boyfriend told me he had a foot fetish and loved my feet and it didn't bother me one bit. Everyone has different turn ons...some weirder than others but having a foot fetish isn't really that strange. I hear of it a lot. I don't think it's something that she would end the relationship over. Don't just blurt out " I love your feet" When you're laying around or something or rubbing her feet :) you can tell her "you have very sexy feet " or something like that and explain your fetish . It's not a big deal. Good luck!
2007-01-10 01:22:38
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answered by Jennifer W 2
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After 8 months, she's not going to run away screaming for a little thing like that. On a first date maybe you'd want to keep it to yourself until the right time, but 8 months, if you go any longer she'll be freaked out just by the fact that you didn't feel you could tell her sooner. I say just tell her when it comes up in conversation, if not sooner.
A foot fetish isn't as big of a deal as you probably think. I kept it to myself all my life thinking I'd be driven out of the city by a mob with pitchforks. Then I told some friends while drunk, and their response was, and I quote "whoop-de doo."
2007-01-10 05:47:40
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answered by nope 5
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Well, just take a chance and tell her..
It will eventually come out..
Might as well get it over with..
She will either laugh in your face and leave you..
Or she will let you worship her feet...
Either way, it is better to find out in 8 months rather than 16 months.
2007-01-10 01:24:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Offer to give her foot massages on a daily basis. Do it sensuously, she'll get the hint in no time.
2007-01-10 01:23:21
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answered by Anonymous
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U do so by opening ur mouth and saying it.Who knows,shes thinking about ur feet too.
2007-01-10 01:26:02
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answered by Ben S 2
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just grab her foot and start making love to it.
2007-01-10 01:50:38
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answered by Anonymous
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just tell her... maybe she likes your feet too!... (ewww)
2007-01-10 01:20:17
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answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7
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