I've always dressed in a very revealing way because I love attention and I always get it whereever I go.My boyfried gets incredibly jealous whenever we go out and other guys including his taken make friends try to chat me up or check me out.He wants me to dress more modestly and I just refuse to because it's my choice.What is his problem?If you've got it why not flaunt it?
2007-01-09 15:49:46 · 48 answers · asked by veronicamonet87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never given him any reason to be jealous and have never been unfaithful in my life but I do have a whole lot of male friends.He didn't order me to stop dressing like that,he just told him he wasn't happy about it and tends to try to get me to cover up when we're at clubs etc.He never flirts with other people and neither do I and I'm not the jealous type.
2007-01-09 16:02:28 · update #1
I wasn't dressed in a revealing way the first time we met.I work at an office building as does he where I have to dress professionally which I was when he asked me to dinner.
2007-01-09 16:07:08 · update #2
No, he doesn't have a right to tell you how to dress. But if you respect him, you'll take his feelings into consideration and find a compromise that will make both of you happy.
2007-01-09 15:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
you admitted it "I've always dressed in a very revealing way because I love attention and I always get it whereever I go.My boyfried gets incredibly jealous whenever we go out and other guys including his taken make friends try to chat me up or check me out."In a sense he is right because "you get attention cus u want it" and again he is wrong b/c no guy should tell his girl how to dress. Now would you like it if he was hittin' it up with other girls or would you rather compromise with him and decide whether to dress decently or revealingly?
G'Luck!!
2007-01-09 15:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by i <3 sex! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't have the right to tell you how to dress. But I have to say that you're being extremely inconsiderate. Why do you want attention from other guys? Isn't he good enough? He has every right to be hurt, and if you liked him you would want him to feel better. His desire for you to wear less slutty clothes is very reasonable. How would you feel if he was being checked out and chatted up all the time by your friends? If I were him, I'd probably be thinking of dumping you real soon. Good night!
2007-01-09 15:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flaunting "it" to him should be your only concern. On another note though, he shouldn't have any issues with the way you dress as long as it's not TOO extreme. If you had a daughter, imagine what you'd be comfortable with her wearing... If he truly loves and cares for you, he will be concerned if you seem to dress and act in a way that will attract the WRONG kind of attention.
2007-01-09 15:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal.... if you insist on dressing provocatively, you WILL get attention. You've said you love attention so obviously you want it. You are obviously very insecure about yourself and need to develope a healthier respect for you body and looks.
Your boyfriend sounds like a keeper. But my advice to you would be let him go. You obviously don't recognize his genuine concern for your flaunting yourself for the benefit of other men who love to ogle you.
He's a gentleman and he doesn't deserve to be treated like that and neither do you.
2007-01-09 15:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem with my boyfriend and I feel like he doesn't have the right to tell me how to dress but I've also decided to take his feelings into consideration and just dress that way when it's just me and him and not all his friends cause that can be very disrespectful.
2007-01-09 15:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have "the right" to tell you how to dress. 1. If you respect yourself, you won't dress, in a "revealing way". 2. If you respect him, you wouldn't dress in a revealing way either. If he's your man, then why would you try so hard to get any other guy's attention, so I can see why your boyfriend would get upset about it.
2007-01-09 16:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss it with him. Don't change who you are just for him or you may regret it later. He may be jealous, but he should also be happy that he has a woman that has a good body and is confident. Don't ignore him either though, it may end up coming between you, just try to come up with a solution that works for both of you.
2007-01-09 15:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by **wishin** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - he doesn't have a right to tell you how to dress. He CAN however tell you what he prefers. You have the choice to wear what you want. You should keep his feelings in mind though when choosing your clothes. You can still be sexy and beatiful while still reflecting that you're not single. Perhaps he's more upset that the way you dress tells the world that you're single.
2007-01-09 15:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to think that you are HIS. And some women are okay with this - and want to think the same of the man. Sounds like this is going to be an issue between the two of you. You don't have to do what he says - but you may lose him. This seems like it's important to him. I think it would be to most men - but you may find one who doesn't care.
2007-01-09 15:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋