what should I do now that I am single? stay single?get a new man? redo my self?
2007-01-09 15:48:27 · 23 answers · asked by h_burnette3728 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy the independence for awhile. Even if you decide to date who says you have to hook up with just one guy?
2007-01-09 15:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are single, kind of like you were before, only with a bf. Sheesh. OKAY, these are my very best tips! Take a course at the local college in something you like, meet new people, volunteer for some favorite charity/event, help out at the local animal shelter, read to the blind, be a Big Sister to some girl who needs you, learn a new hobby, get your hair and nails done, lose a few pounds, work out more, hang out with your friends you haven't seen in a while. Go to the library, a movie, the mall. Call all of your friends and family and update yourself on what THEY are up to. Plan a "I'm single Party" and have all your friends bring their singles guy friends with them. Do something to improve yourself so that when Mr. Right comes along, you'll be MS Right and if your old BF sees you, he will kick himself for dumping you, instead of wiping his forehead thanking God he dodged a bullet. I say the best revenge my dear, is to live well enough they hear about it and regret losing you. Good luck!
2007-01-09 23:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel the need to redo yourself. Maybe he is the one who needs to do that. Lots of hard times you go thru are blessings in disguise. Enjoy being single. Get an education and set your standards very high. You have the rest of your life to be in a relationship. Enjoy just being with yourself without the feeling that you need to please anyone but you. When you're married with 3 kids you will look back on this time. Enjoy it, your future self will thank you.
2007-01-09 23:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by summertime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to rush back into anything. A good relationship usually finds you, and not the other way around. It seems like the more you search, the harder it is to find.
Enjoy your senior year of HS and the college years. You still have a lot ahead of you, and a lot to learn about life. Don't obsess over being in a relationship right away. There's plenty of time for that later. Hell, half the fun is going out to the clubs/parties knowing that YOU have the option of starting over when YOU want...
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2007-01-09 23:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are too young to be in a committed relationship. Just stay single and meet new people and worry about having a boyfriend when you are in your 20s.
2007-01-09 23:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should spend some time doing things by yourself and for yourself instead of jumping into a rebound relationship. Build your self-esteem by trying out a new hairstyle; new makeup; or by spending quality time with a good girlfriend or sister. Once you have had time to get over the break-up, you will be strong enough to then begin dating again.
2007-01-09 23:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whatever you want. If I were in your place, I would redo myself. Show him that "it's his loss." Just try your best to pamper yourself, dont worry about guys first. You're still young. If you see a guy that catches your eye, then FLIRT. Just take your time, and take things slowly so that you wont get hurt the next time. ;)
2007-01-09 23:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live the single life and date as many men as you want.
2007-01-09 23:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well dont go looking for a boyfriend that never ends well, just keep an eye out and be flirtatious and fun and a new guy will find you. It may also make ur ex jealous (-;
2007-01-09 23:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take enough time to get over him and just play the field. if something comes along fine but don't go looking for it. enjoy your freedom a little bit.
2007-01-09 23:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by grrlstarr79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋