My gf and I are on an exclusive relationship. We've been dating for a year now, she's 29, I'm 32. I used to be the typical guy who dated a lot and had many female friends, but now she's my only one.
That being said, there is one thing that confuses me a little. She hardly ever shows jealousy, when I go out with my friends she never questions me or bugs me, no signs of jealousy anywhere, even when she knows I'm still in touch with some of my exs. I'm not a jealous guy anyway either, but I must admit I ask her about her outings more than she asks me. I'm confused, cause it has always been the other way around for me. I'm not used to dating a girl who never reveals jealousy, and me on the other hand, have never been like this. Does it mean she trusts me and that she's confident about the relationship, or does it mean she doesnt care?
Also, someone told me that the more jealous a girl is, the less faithful she is. Do you agree?
Thanks!
2007-01-09 15:44:36 · 13 answers · asked by Skubba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like she trusts you not to do anything behind her back. That's a good thing.
2007-01-09 15:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so true about the more jealous less faithful part. Ask yourself if you are being unfaithful to her & you'll know the answer because you do seems like you are jealous. Hehehe.
Her not being jealous does show that she has a lot of trust in you. Your being anxious about her outings also shows that she has a very important place in your heart. Thus giving her more confidence in you.
Try to have more confidence in her like how she's treating you. A good relation needs a lot of trust.
If you really feel uncomfortable about it, talk to her & ask her to give you some assurance about her feelings.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-09 16:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by vach1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be fine it sounds as though she knows your hers and that she doesn't have to worrier about you fu**ing around on her. An no just because a girl is jealous does not mean that she is less faithful. cuz the two relationships that I was in I was in one for 4 years and I was never jealous but then I got in to another one that last for 2 years it just ended because I felt that I need my time to be alone and fine myself but I was real jealous with him and I never cheated on him either I guess its just the girls confidence in the man you know what I mean? well I hope that this can help you some I hope the best for you and your relationship.
2007-01-09 15:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by LoVn2bAmOmMy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She trusts you. If she didn't care then she wouldn't be there.
I don't agree with the jealousy/faithfulness thing, that's a little bit of a generalisation, I think. Personally, I admit to having a problem with jealousy at times, but I would never cheat on a person in my life. Don't always believe what you hear.
But yeah...it's good.
2007-01-09 15:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by poetrygirlphil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o yeah.
a girl thats jealous isnt so faithful, most of the time.
jealosy can take a 10 and knock them down to a 2 in the blink of an eye.
your girl sounds perfect man.
2007-01-09 15:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is jealous but does not show it in front of you. Its probably is eating up inside her. Trusts grows stronger as time passes. So the longer you stay together, trust overcomes jealousy.
2007-01-09 16:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by landsharks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, because you probably feel that's a true sign of someone loving you...you are questioning a perfectly rational and trusting girlfriend. Thank your lucky stars you picked a good one this time. Live in the tranquility.
2007-01-09 15:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they said that jealousy is asign of insecurity, and if she is insecured ... that means she does'nt trust you . it depends on the situation... on how or what is she is jealous about .. does not mean if she is not jealous means she does not love you or don't care about you .maybe she really understand where she's stands even before she became your girlfriend due to what you mentioned about how you are before she becam your girl . let me ask you ? is she faithfull to you ? then if she is ... you dont have to worry about anything ....
2007-01-09 16:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by leopoldo711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone is different. maybe she trusts you too much that it would serve her no purpose in being jealous of you. and if a girl is jealous it doesn't necessarily mean that she is unfaithful. it all depends on how the person is.
2007-01-09 15:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by i <3 sex! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a lucky man. You found a women that trust you. She might not be the jealous type because she doesn't play games with your head. be thankful.
2007-01-09 15:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋