my girlfriend takes my freedom twisxts my heart is needy and insecure, doesnt understand relationships or bonds because she never had one that was meaningful at any time in her life in any way with anyone deep even as a kid........she cheated on me 5 times including sleeping with some guy once, shes dumped me 55 times, she lies and cheats and ***** a webcam for money cuz shes too lazy to get a job........she psots my private information on the itnernet and jabs with her roomates about me and ****...she guilts me and tells me taking my meds for my issues should be superceded by her need to fight all night.........she is also bipolar and not properly medicated and even goes on and off her meds for deep depresiin aon a regualr basis and has no care about it
2007-01-09 15:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It seems your girlfriend takes you for granted. She does not seem to care about your feelings at all. Worse, she seems to take her own self for granted and does not care for her own wellfare either. She can not love or respect you unless she loves and respects herself - which apparently she is unable to do. If you care about her, why not bring her to a professional who can help her love herself so she can love others as well
2007-01-09 15:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How low is your own self esteem for you to allow her to do these things to you? She has dumped you 55 times (who counts that high in a breakup?) and has cheated on you 5 times that you know of and you are still there? Sounds to me like one of you have to take the step and move on, unfortunately it will have to be you. Why should she, she has it made because you put up with all her crap! So get some backbone about you dump her and move on. Please don't say "but I love her" because that's not love that's abuse. Besides, how much will you love her when she gives you an STD she got while cheating on you?
2007-01-10 00:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by DaBrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can. She has way too many issues. Get rid of this girl change your number, maybe even move. She is CRAZY and you can't help her. You need to help yourself. Why are you still with her? You know she is only going to continue on this wreckless path in her life. She will drag you along for the ride if you let her. I have a good friend who went through a similar thing. She had to move into her best friends house and change jobs to hide from this psycho she hid at my house for awhile. That girl called me at least 20 xs A day. My husband had to threaten her to make her leave me alone because I new where she moved to .Please heed my advice she will hurt you one way or the other. She is abusing you emotionally and you don't have to take it anymore. See a therapist and get help for yourself. You are going throught the same things as a victim of domestic violence goes through. I don't care if she's hot either get away.
2007-01-09 23:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is this abusive to you, there is no hope for your relationship, unless you like to be abused. A lot of this stuff does not sound bipolar, it sounds more like borderline personality disorder (which does have a lot of overlapping symptoms with bipolar disorder). Either way, it doesn't sound like she cares much about you, or at least not enough to get help & change her behavior.
2007-01-09 23:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And your question is??? Get rid of her. If she's dumped you 55 times, duh, she is trying to tell you something. Go find someone else.
2007-01-09 23:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO......WHY IS SHE YOUR GIRLFRIEND???
2007-01-10 01:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋