I slept over at my best friend's house and when my friend was sleeping i snuck out to go to the bathroom. I've had a crush on him for two years. He was in the bathroom brushing his teeth. I looked at him and the next thing i knew we started kissing. He felt my boob and we started taking out clothes off. We had sex and now i'm PREGNANT! What should I do?
2007-01-09 15:38:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
abort the child!
2007-01-09 15:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Wow, girl u really messed up. Did your friend know that you had a crush on her brother? I think she will find out eventually, so you should be honest, and tell her the truth. I think that you should tell her brother about the baby too, cuz if he's a real man, he will take responsibility for his part in this whole situation, realizing that it takes two people to make a baby. Keep the baby. Like another answerer said, you will be blessed, even though u probably can see the way any good could come from this, it just might. U'll see...
2007-01-09 15:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're pregnant? Check again just to be sure. If you are pregnant, then it is a tough situation you're in. Whether if you want to keep the baby or not, is up to you. Meanwhile, you should tell your parents and your friend what happened and your situation.They might get angry with you, but they care about you and I'm sure they will help you out no matter what.
I also think you should have a serious chat with the guy, because what happened was wrong. You didn't deserve to be taken an advantage of like that. Did he ask you out? Did he ask for your consent? Did he bother to use protection? Obviously, he didn't care. That's a sign that he's a scum. Have a serious chat with him, about the pregnancy and what happened between you two. I hope everything turns out okay. It is a tough situation but you get through it.
2007-01-09 16:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE PLANNING TO KEEP THE BABY:
tell her! she's going to find out sooner or later. it's better to tell her before you start to show.. if you wait long enough, she'll be very mad and there's a chance you won't be friends anymore. and with her brother being the father, it's going to be a very stressfull family you're about to have. work things out her and apologize. don't hide it. if you intensionally had sex without proper protection, that's your fault and a good lesson that you have to deal with whatever life brings you. don't let it get you down though... bringing life into this world is a blessing and a miracle. ENJOY IT!
IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON GETTING AN ABORTION:
personally, i'm against abortion unless your body is not developed enough to give birth and you're putting your life at risk. OR if you got raped. come to terms with your bestfriend, and even if you don't have the baby, you should still be honest with her. because bestfriends shouldn't lie to eachother. if she can't handle the truth... she's a bad bestfriend... but if she gets over it, then that's one thing less to worry about, right? come clean, don't stress about it forever. you'll feel alot better with it off your chest.
2007-01-09 15:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to be honest and tell her and him the truth about what is going on with you. If she is a good friend she will understand thou and she will even know that she is an aunt now she will be excited thou. Tell her before the baby comes and she find out the hard way it is best to tell her now than later.
2007-01-09 15:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. They will more than likely decide to get his parents involved. A discussion should take place and more than likely your family MAY or MAY NOT discuss abortion as an option. That really depends on how your parents feel on the subject. But... you HAVE to tell them NOW. Do not wait or tried to hide it until you show. Face it head on and get it over with now. I wish you the best.
2007-01-09 15:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by gabound75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this wholly your decision.Have you discussed this with the father?Really this has nothing to do with your b-friend.You need to decide if you want to be a couple,or if you want to be a mother.Or stay as you are .The choice is yours.You were'nt raped or forced to have sex.So you should have the baby.However in any event the welfare of the child should be your only concern.Whatever you decide,I'm happy with
2007-01-09 15:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try these websites and phone numbers for some help and someone to talk to:
www.healingtheculture.com; phone:(425)-481-6563
life choices pregnancy clinics: 1-87-NOT-ALONE
Birthright: 1-800-550-4900
heartlink.org
whatever you do, PLEASE don't abort your baby!
many women can never get over their decision to do so, even after 20 or 30 years.
you can also give it up for adoption cuz lots off people that can't become pregnant are waiting for a baby like yours that they can adopt
i'll be praying for you! :~)
2007-01-12 09:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by ~002~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whatever you do, dont go to a colgate convention, cuz it seems that guys brushing there teeth, leads to you getting prego. I dont see 4 thousand people brushing there teeth at once, a good enviroment for you!
2007-01-09 15:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it was very big problem for u but it's ok.i think u should tell ur best friend's brother about this.What he say.he say no so u tell ur mom and dad otherwish he say yes merried with u so u run a way ok.I think it was good for u for ur fuchar.it was nothing.i think u should take my advish and u do or no i don't now about.u must think ur fuchar, and ur child.
2007-01-09 15:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by dhara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....
umm thats really bad!
my advice is that you first of all make sure you are pregnant.
if you aren't, thats great and you know not to do that again.
if you are..... well i suggest that you tell your friend AND your friends brother because they are going to find out at some point and its better if they hear it from you and not someone else.
now your friend most likely is going to realllyy not like you for doing that but make your apologie really sincere and tell her you didn't mean for things to happen like that.
hope i helped! good luck with things!!! i really hope this work out! :)
2007-01-09 15:45:57 · answer #11 · answered by soccerstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋