Im 23. Hes my boyfriend, the 2nd guy I ve ever been with. We used to have sex atleast once a day for almost a year.....now maybe once a week. And its been this way for about 4 months. I just dont have the desire to have sex. I like to masterbate but I am not in the mood for sex. When we do have sex its because I feel obligated to and I feel like i should since its been so long since the last time. I love my boyfriend but what is going on?
2007-01-09 15:38:13 · 3 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whta's going on?
You had sex with him about 1,100 times by my calculations. Maybe you need a break.
2007-01-09 15:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we have a huge sex drive because when we are having sex we are getting attention. Sometimes we are just craving attention. Things in your relationship may have settled in a bit and you are not feeling the need so much because you are feeling fulfilled in other ways. You may be fulfilled mentally and emotionally and therefore not feel a huge need to be fulfilled sexually. That is one thing another is that you and your boyfriend may not be connecting on other levels. Our bodies follow our minds, and our minds follow are hearts. Sometimes it is hard to connect with someone sexually if we are not connecting with them mentally. Talk about it.
2007-01-09 23:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ray-Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*gasp* the worlds gonna end!!!...maybe he just wasnt good enough for u
2007-01-09 23:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋