My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. Do guys "hang out" and stay friends with all of thier exes or only some and should I feel special that he wants to see me even as a friend? What are his REAL intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month? Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?
Is he playing with me or really wants to be friends?
2007-01-09 15:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all comes back to trust and how much you know him. If you're confused right no, it's probably because you feel really uncomfortable with him taking you to the movies again and everything. It sounds like it could be both things; he could want to get back with you again or he could sincerely wanna remain friends. It's up to you to risk it.
2007-01-09 15:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say No....He is your Ex for a reason. Once you have broken off the relationship, you should also break away the friendship (for a while) Yes it does sound like He is playing you. If you like the "mind games" that he is feeding you. Then go right ahead and play along. If you don't, tell him how it makes you feel when He does this to you. As for his real intentions, he is just stringing you along.....He wants to "have his cake and eat it to"...I think that you should break it off with this guy. Find someone else that can be your friend as well as your lover.
Good Luck!
2007-01-09 15:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm close friends with a few of my ex GF's. It is normal and logical. It also says something important about relationships. The first and foremost important ingredient to a relationship is FRIENDSHIP. You have to be friends before you can become lovers. If the lovers part of the equation does not work out, you fall onto friendship. If it was a hostile breakup, you'll remain friends, but not 'close' friends.
2007-01-09 15:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its never bad to be "just friends" with your exes. I broke up with my boyfriend like 3 months ago but we stilll cool nd all, even though we fight like brother and sister. also i still give him hugs and spend time with him once in a while, but that doesn't mean he's trying to be more than friends. i mean i'm just saying that you could still be friends with your exes, but if your lucky enough, maybe there could be a chance of going back together. well I hope this helps you a lot.
2007-01-09 15:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if the relationship was more like a friendship than a relationship. Also if you both enjoy each other conversation and company.
2007-01-09 15:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Banks Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋