Just latly, I have really needed to spend time with my girlfriend. but it seems like she dosnt want to..... Im always asking her if she would like to do somthing but i always get "well im sorry i have no way of getting there" or "no sorry i have to work that day" and thats all ok but she seems to be able to go and do alot of stuff with all of her other friends. Plus shes never asking me or telling me when she is free to do something.
What could this mean?
p.s. she is not the kind of person who "needs her space"
Do i keep asking her? or do i now leave it up to her to ask me?
and what does it mean if i do just leave it up to her and she dosnt ask? how long do i wait? and last of all, do i speak to her about it?
cheers Glen
2007-01-09 15:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means she's not for you. why would she rather spend more time with her freinds rather than spending it with you. look, if she's like that it means she's not that into you. break up with her and start dating somebody who would rather grow with you. relationship is about investing time to each other, enjoying a beautiful day together, learning from each other and making memories together. if she loves you, you're not suppose to beg or have this problem just to be with her. you seem to be likable for women out there. go out and enjoy your youth til you meet somebody who would love to spend her days with you.
2007-01-09 15:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her and see what is up.
Something may just be on her mind, she could be trying to let you down gently, she might be confused about how she feels about the relationship, she might just truly be busy with work and life, who knows.
The only way to truly find out is to ask her.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 23:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she's your girlfriend...it doesn't sound like it to me. I think she has moved on. I would simply stop asking her, and start asking someone else. Chasing after her when it is clear that she no longer has any interest will make you appear pathetic...don't go that route.
2007-01-09 23:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt like you or she might have strict parents if not she doesnt like you, if you like someone you will want to spend time with them ditch the girl u deserve better than that she is nothing but a game player
2007-01-09 23:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep asking her. In fact, back off a little and see what happens. If she doesn't respond, you're better off without her.
2007-01-09 23:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in your place I would just make plans that don't include her. If she then asks you, you can talk about it and explain what you're feeling. If she doesn't, then... you've already got something else to do. :)
2007-01-09 23:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a lady and let her call upon you instead of you calling her and guess what ------you get busy too.
2007-01-09 23:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes so drinking with her friends and f$%&ing someone else.
hang out with some friends, and gain your independence
2007-01-09 23:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by tweakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes cheating on you
2007-01-09 23:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋