should you tell your girlfriends boyfriend that she told you she is going to stop taking her birthcontrol pill with out him knowing so she can get pregnant, and then told you not to tell him, and you are friends with both of them, and they live next store to you.
2007-01-09 15:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, because what is more important is what will happen if a baby is born and someone isn't ready to be a father. Your friend is scandless, you never do that crap to a guy, it's selfish, messed up, and their relationship will fail if she's doing such manipulative things to keep him around. And we all know relationships don't last just because a baby is pulled into the mess. Do it for the potential life that will suffer if it's born without a stable home. Enough with the statistics already it has to STOP. My brother's stupid girlfriend confessed that she was planning on doing this to him (they were having many problems at the time), I told him and he thanked me and told me he'd be careful with her. Babies aren't solutions or relationship makers, they should be brought into this world with two willing and loving parents who are ready and in agreement
2007-01-09 15:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough try talking to your girl friend again and ask why she feels she has to do that and if she is fully aware of what she is about to do. Having a baby is a huge thing is she really ready for it financially, physically, socially and emotionally? also how would she cope if he left her?
Its really hard to know if you should approach the male friend as what if he doesnt mind and her having a baby might end up being the best thing in his life? although i think if something can be prevented from turning ugly you should do something...tell... but try to encourage your friends to talk about having children and let them see where each other stand first
good luck =)
2007-01-09 23:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is how your friends behave, you need to get new friends. She has made you guilty by association and presented you with an impossible dilemma. You need to have serious conversation with her and tell her that if she doesn't tell her boyfriend what she told you, you will. After you have made sure that he knows the truth, have nothing more to do with her. You do not need someone like that in your life.
2007-01-09 23:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. She is wrong trying to trap him, and just because she gets pregnant that doesn't mean he will stay with her. And that will just make it harder on an innocent child.
2007-01-09 23:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Green Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. I'd stay out of the middle of that.
2007-01-09 23:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id tell him..thats a shitty thing to do to someone!! tell him now!!! what kind of a horrible person would do that
2007-01-09 23:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by red77chevy350 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋