okay so me and my boyfriend havent gone any farther than makeout but all he talks about is going farther. should i go farther beause he is my boyfriend? does he actually like me or will he dump me after he gets what he wants? any help??
2007-01-09 15:12:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, he should'nt talk about it if he's sincerely in to u. It's just not correct. If ur not ready then he needs to wait. it's ur rep, soul, respect, and affection that goes into that. watch ur step and keep it safe. if ur not ready the only thing to do is to lighten up on the kissing. it will def. lead u there if u keep it up.
Good luck and hope wutever u choose pleases u.
2007-01-09 15:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he wants to go farther. He's a guy...it's not his fault. Go only as far as you are comfortable going. Don't go farther just because he's your boyfriend, or because you think he won't like you if you don't. Be comfortable with yourself, and you'll be fine.
2007-01-09 23:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should go further when YOU are ready and you BOTH better be ready financially and emotionally to take responsiblity for ALL of the consquences that happen when you start having sex. If he continues to pressure you DUMP him, all he wants is to jump your bones.
2007-01-09 23:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do YOU want to go farther? if so, then yeah, why not? but if you don't, just say no. if he pressures you, you know he has no respect for your views and he doesnt like you
2007-01-09 23:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on you...
Do you feel that he deserve it?
Do you think being together for a period of time would be enough to go farther? would you feel satisfied if you make it? its really up to you....If you really love him even if he dumped you , you wouldnt feel sad cause u have given evrything our of love...
2007-01-09 23:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by crystalink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang you must be young!
don't give in just because hes your boyfriend.
Go talk to your parents they only want and know whats best for you
2007-01-09 23:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give it up!!! Do it when you are ready, besides tell him to take care of business before you meet!
2007-01-09 23:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save out for at least a little bit longer until you really like him and you know he returns the feelings.
2007-01-09 23:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts .....if your not 100% sure and trusting this choice then you shouldnt go through with it, test him out and say i'm not ready and see his reaction or wait a couple of months
2007-01-09 23:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it cuz it's just plain stupid! If he isn't happy with who you are then he is just not worth it! And think of what could happen if you did!
2007-01-09 23:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Erriyberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋