Soooo, I have been dating this guy for about two months. We aren't established because I just recently moved away, but I am moving back within the next 6 months. We get along great! I just need some advice on our "intimate experiences"....he's older than I am. I am 22 and he is 28. When we hook up we don't do anything but (I feel so foolish saying this) "dry hump" with all clothes off except our undies. haha but we really get into it. We both are very attracted to each other and our sessions get hot and steamy, but it doesn't ever go any further than that. Is that weird? Am i missing a sign that maybe he's not into me? In the moment he says things like you are so beautiful. I was just wondering since it doesn't go any further do you think there is something wrong with me? Is he not into me sexually? Any advice?
2007-01-09 15:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by mambo209 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey sex is not everything in a relationshiP!! he sounds really sweet the way he compliments u. i mean u dont need more than a caring person cuz uve only dated 4 2 months, give it time. theres nothing wrong with u, he prolly is into u. some ppl arent comfortable having IT until they get 2 kno the person better.
2007-01-09 15:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by cutie317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take the next step and take his pants off or something. Have you tried this? It's so odd that he hasn't wanted to go further... maybe he's embarrassed about his package... or has something to hide. At this point, I would probably ask him what the problem was.
2007-01-09 23:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..very weird. I've never heard a guy who stopped at the pique of a sexual encounter. My conclusion is either he is really respectful and doesn't want to look like an asshole..(very unlikely)...OR he is gay.
2007-01-09 23:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't into you sexually, he'd keep his clothes on. Maybe he wants to wait until marriage?
2007-01-09 23:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married THEN do it, not b4. if u r going to go around just ACTING like you are, i don't c why it is such a big problem 4 him 2 go ahead and do it anyways...
2007-01-09 23:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by annabanana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋