recently separated, i have three small kids would like to date at some point in the future do men want to date some one with three kids?
2007-01-09 15:11:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe it or not yes they do before I had gotten married I had two kids and was 24yrs old and I thought that I would never find someone because I had to many kids but not true You can't think of your self as funky meat but the most beautifully person in the world and when you believe that men will see that and be attracted to you and won't care if you have kids
2007-01-09 15:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by funnybunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fun to be around any man that cant handle that you have three kids isnt worth your time you need a real man I just met this lady and she told me that her and husband have a total of 10 kids under 12 living in there house most from previoes marriges talk about love...
good luck and have fun in the sea
2007-01-09 23:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by GrassRootsRabbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have a chance of dating. There are lots of men out there who would be willing to date you and to get to know the kind of woman that you are. Men who will love you and love your children too. Do not feel hopeless. Go out at times and meet new people - start from there.
2007-01-09 23:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single parent, you may feel reluctant to date again. Take it slowly, listen to your instincts and try to have fun.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Date when you feel you're ready, not when others tell you that you should (see "eHow to Ask Someone on a Date as a Single Parent Date').
•STEP 2: Ignore guilt. You're a human being and you need adult companionship. You deserve an occasional night out.
•STEP 3: Take it slowly. Don't fill your calendar with dates all at once. It will take time for you and your children to adjust to the idea of your dating.
•STEP 4: Make sure your children are cared for by someone you trust while you're on a date.
•STEP 5: Talk to your children. Explain that you're going to spend some time with a person you like. Do not talk about remarriage or new daddies or mommies, but be honest about its being a date. Answer any questions your children have, but keep personal details to yourself.
•STEP 6: Decide whether you want the person you're dating to meet your children. On a first date it is probably not advisable. When you do introduce them, keep it light, easy and quick. Don't plan any 'family' outings yet. Try not to talk about your kids too much during dates, but don't feel you need to hide their existence, either.
•STEP 7: Introduce the new person to your children gradually if you feel that your relationship is becoming more serious.
•STEP 8: Avoid letting your children see you in bed with anyone.
•STEP 9: Consider how much affection you're comfortable expressing in front of your children. Follow your instincts. You can always kiss after the kids are in bed.
•STEP 10: Be prepared for your children to be angry, resentful, hostile, sad, shy or nervous about the situation. Help them through it as best you can.
•STEP 11: Be patient. It may take time to become comfortable on dates after being out of practice for so long.
•STEP 12: Keep your ex-spouse out of it. He or she is bound to find out about your dating and may try to discuss it with you or become involved. Remember that you are divorced and it is your life to live as you please, so long as your children are not harmed.
Tips & Warnings
•If you or any of your children are having a very difficult time coping with the situation, consult a counselor or therapist.
2007-01-09 23:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be glad to have some one i never married so im always lookin but gettin nowhere so i think so that we have a chance im gettin older too and am almost blind in a eye got three dogs this will get out cause its cencerd email me back we could be friends but i dont know if we could make contack oudside of this service or not but good luck with everything mikey
2007-01-09 23:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have a chance to still date. It may seem like your children may be a man turn off, but men who don't want to have more children are likely to be impressed that you already have a "full house".
Always remember that if a man can't accept your children, then you should not be willing to accept that man.
2007-01-09 23:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As cruel as this may sound, someone who has three kids is going to have a difficult time. I know someone who has 3 kids who basically gave up and just starting going to bars and getting with whoever. Good luck.
2007-01-09 23:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love your kids when they grow up they r the 1 who will cared u any way, u can go on dting , find a man that will love u not u only but also love ur kids too, use ur brain as u use ur heart in finding a man that u will be forever
2007-01-09 23:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some dont but the problem might be your kids. you might find someone to take care of the kids for u but if thats the case you might not be able to go out as often as ud liked
2007-01-09 23:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to late it doesnt matter if you have 6 kids that doesnt change who you are i may speak for myself or maybe for others but if your a good women than having kids means nothing
2007-01-09 23:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Emilio N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋