I been with my bf for a year, I love him so much and he also said that he love me and want to be with me for the rest of his life. We don’t do much we both work at the same store, I go to school, and when we get together we just stay home and ****, that is it, I want more out off it because it is going to get old after a while, i am east going I don’t care about partying to much I am not big on hinging out with a lot of people, what ever he said I will do what ever he ask me, I love him so much but I don’t want it to get old I am to soft if he mad me mad I just get mad at him for 5 min and I forget I want him to treat me right to care about me to show me that he love’s me, but I don’t know how or what to do, can some one explain this to me thanx
2007-01-09 14:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seem like y'all are a very young couple that don't know what to do with each other. You have to do things together and enjoy and don't caught up in the physical attraction. You are right, it could get old. You are more mature than he is. He better watch out because you might meet a man some day who can treat you like you have never been treated before and give you great sex and just totally sweep you off your feet and fill your every void.
2007-01-09 15:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how yo feel, tell him that the not going out, whether it be to a movie or out to eat, is bothering you. But in the beginning you should have known what type of man you were dating and considering youve been with him for a year, then you know him by now. I was with a guy like that for four years sweetie, and i know it hets tiredsome, and youre tired of not going anywhere but hey thats him. Hes going to be like that, he may not ever say lets go to the movies, or bowling etc, but you got to take the anniative and say hey babe lets go chech out a movie tonight or i got the taste for some seafood, how boout we go to Joes Crab Shack. Just be real, tell him how not going anywhere and being cooped up in the house makes you feel. But whatever you do, don't break up with him, cause you might regret it, like i do.
Good Luck
2007-01-09 14:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by ejfefe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no sweet heart thats what happen to me and my husband.and now afther 33 years we are separate.you now why because we left are self go one on a couch and the other on another couch.he work work and work....we never take the time for each other my children came firts and then my grand-children came in,so we started to are own thing and almost no talk then the interest in each other came low no more loving no more eating to gether and in bed we just turn around,and the next day always the same thing over and over again.so to late we sat toghter and we talk for almost all the night and then we took are decision toghter to be separated and we aggree toghter that was the best thing to do.but now he has his girlfriend and i am still friend with my ex.so what i wanted to say in this you half to talk toghter and get to see a movie go to restaurant and do special thing for him ,and he should do the same thing with you.dont forget to make love passionaly.and leave a little note in his breafcase or the car on is pellow and he should treat you the same because lonelyness will stape in if both of you let it go in,cause its going to brake and then you will have kids and you will be tire but you have to take time for each other please hun xxoo dont let the routine get in to your way because its going to destroy you both just like me and my ex i hope i help you a little.dont forget be 2 SWEET HEART.GOD LOVE YOU i do.xo
2007-01-09 15:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can tell your BF this if you haven't already, and work together on finding other things to do together. If he doesn't want to work on it though, there's not much you can do to change him. You can change yourself though. You can expect more for yourself. Think about what YOU think is important to have in a good relationship and what YOU think is totally not allowable in good relationship. Don't settle for less than that. Hopefully your BF and you are not so different and can see eye to eye on those things. If not, you gave it your best shot, hopefully you will have learned some lessons that will have made his presence in your life worthwhile for the duration.
2007-01-09 15:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is imperative to the relationship that the two of you come up with a couple of hobbies that you both love to do together and you also need to do some things alone with your friends. Good Luck
2007-01-09 14:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a backbone and state your expectations out of this relationship.
2007-01-09 14:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by goddessbella77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of stayin hm....go to a movie, or bowling, basketball or football games....anything!
2007-01-09 14:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't or don't communicate with him then all is lost
if you want to go out, then tell him. if you feel he is just using you for sex, tell him. tell him what you want...
guys aren't mind readers
2007-01-09 15:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your figure it out when you grow up
2007-01-09 14:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋