ok i was talking to my ex...weve been broken up since oct. but he told me that the real reason that he broke up w/ me was that one of his friends asked this girl out for him and he decided to go out w/ her, but he told me that he needed to focus on school so that it wouldnt hurt my feelings. then he later asked me out again. i asked him a few questions and thought that i would give him another chance (bc i still really like him) but my bff dustin says that i shouldnt have said yes and that hes just gonna ditch me again and lie. dusin keeps trying to convince me to break up w/ him. i love nate and he seems really commited and so far i dont think hes lied. but he broke up w/ the other girl the day after he asked me out. dustin does sorta like me but most of all he cares about me. he seems mad that i talk to my bf but he keeps tellin me to do whatever i want. i really love nate but he did lie and i do really care about dustin. what should i do?
2007-01-09 14:44:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The ex will just ditch you again, he has already done it once when he shouldn't of if he realy cared about you he wouldn't of gone out with the other girl. Show him that you can do better than him.
2007-01-09 14:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u believe that he is being honest with you then go ahead with it. If he doesnt come through for u this time u know not to trust him again. As for Dustin he does like you and he does care what u do. My personal opinion, i would see what could develop between you and Dustin. Good luck.
2007-01-09 22:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mkay, Nate=playa! Dustin=Your man, open your eyes girl, you need to be with someone who cares for you, this Nate guy, ugh!, Bad excuse for a bf! Dump him and go out with Dustin.
2007-01-09 22:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Chey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dustin seems really nice. When a guy lies to me and asks me out again, i cant trust him, so i wouldnt go out with him.
2007-01-09 22:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy broke up with you to be with another girl. He doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for him. Why are you with him? Because you think that you love him? Come on, open your eyes and realize that it's not going to work out in the long run.
2007-01-09 22:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do really know that Nate is a player, right ?
So basically you just want to hook up because you like the sex ?
I think you know he is not a real boyfriend , just a booty call guy . . . just be honest that you like the booty call players more.
Get it out of your system and maybe in a couple of years you can settle down with a good guy.
2007-01-09 22:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you said, I'd trust Dustin.
However, there is no saying you have to make a decision today.
Tread lightly. Be cautious.
2007-01-09 22:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgotten : well you can follow own dreams by just
taking that one step at an time & deciding which person is the
best to have other wise give up and some day an perfect man
will come ok ?
2007-01-09 23:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts, but trust me, the heart does heal with time...If theres one thing I believe no female should tolerate, its a cheating boyfriend...there are too many of them, all of which are not needed and you could do without.... i know the hardest part is breaking up and seperating from the one you cant stop thinking about, but sometimes its for the best...besides, take this time to teach him a real lesson, and that takes time...dont look at it as you two are breaking up forever, take it as some time off so he can REALLY regret what he did, this way he realizes how unhappy and hurt he is without you in his life....therefore, he will RREALLY learn from his mistakes and never disrespect you and cheat on you ever again.
2007-01-09 22:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can'y bleive the drama people put themselves through for there X's what part of the X you don't get?If your X is messing up then move on.You are in love with somone else why ya trippin with your X he had his chance and messed up.Don't let anybody destroy your happiness..
2007-01-09 22:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋