Does this sound slutty?

Question

I am 20 years old. I have made out with 44 guys. Out of those, I have gone all the way with 2 of them, and been close (but not quite) gone all the way with 6 of them. Does this seem slutty? And if so, should I lie to a guy about this past that I want to have a serious relationship with? Thanks.

Answer 1

Some things are better left unsaid.

Answer 2

Yes, it sounds slutty to me. Especially since you are counting. If you want to have a serious relationship, hold something back. Get to know the person you are dating well enough to know if you are comfortable enough and want to take the relationship further. Guys talk, and if you are talking about the same geographical area, chances are at least half those 44 guys have probably embellished their encounters with you and even those you haven't dated yet are expecting you to live up to your reputation, if they get a date or even consider a date with you.

You shouldn't have to lie about anything to anyone. First of all, it's really none of the guys business who you have dated, unless you have STD's that haven't been managed or cured. If you and the guy you are dating have nothing better to talk about except your past dates, the relationship is really going nowhere. Good Luck!

Answer 3

first of all, wow. why do you keep track of all of this stuff? but to answer your question no. 44 guys isnt like a crazy amount, especially through your high school and college years, and its not like you went all the way with all 44, and 2 isnt slutty. so no, your not slutty.

Answer 4

I think just making out with a guy doesn't count.
I would only count who you went all the way with.
So, no, that's not slutty.

Answer 5

44..? that was quite a lot...and you keep it track..?
;)
PS. you dont really have to tell ur new bloke the exact no..its ur past...do a bit of small white lies doesnt hurt anyone...Just dont cut it down too much to: i only slept with 3 men before