i would love to say no, there shouldnt be a problem at all, but u can damn well bet that somewhere down the line something will happen, and it will have all started with the bf or gf. it shouldnt be that way but it is.
2007-01-09 14:48:42
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answered by hippie chick 3
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I would hope not. My best friend is a guy and I'm engaged to my boyfriend of nearly 5 years. I tend to get along better with guys than girls. My best friend even stays the night a lot, and my boyfriend doesn't have a problem with it. He trusts me. And I don't take advantage of that. You definitely need trust for really strong relationships with the opposite sex, but it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
2007-01-09 22:51:02
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answered by F.J. 6
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yes
as the poosite sex ALWAYS gets in the way
think about it
as a guy you got a GF
but then you are always looking at thoer girls
if your current GF keep you happy all you do is look
but...
if she doesn't..
then you will seek oppotunity where ever you can find it
the same goes true for you GF
she do the VERY same thing
so to think that it's ok for her to have male freinds and think nothing might come if it is ignorant at best
you can always use this test
as any male friend of a BF/GF couple is given the chance, if the Gf in tyhe eqaution said you can have sex with me no string attached, would he..? in most cases ( unless he is gay or extremly religious ) the answer will be yes.. as no guy turns down and offer of sex
2007-01-09 22:48:34
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answered by Anonymous
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There will only be relationship problems if they do not trust each other and are not fully committed to each other and making each other know and feel that they are most important in each other's lives - and not the friends of the opposite sex.
2007-01-09 22:49:35
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answered by fancyface1 l 3
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It depends on the two people. If they are comfortable with their partner having friends of the opposite sex, then there will be no problems. If the partner is a jealous type, then yes, there will be problems.
2007-01-09 22:46:53
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answered by Blayzn 4
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any relationship according to me is based on trust faith sincererity and love for each other.a relationship of b/fg/f and that of a husband and wife are the most delicate ones and should be the strongest.if no then they donot fit to be so.from my side i would say that if either of u have a problem in a third interfering in ur relationship then avoid that person as ur relationship with each other is more important than anything else.
2007-01-09 22:50:14
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answered by reena 1
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No, my best friend and I have known each other for 40 years, his wife and himself have been married 30 years...he and I Have maintained a friendship all through his marriage. I was there when he got married, I was at the hospital when they had their first child. I stood Godmother to his eldest daugther and stood Godmother to his eldest grand daughter. His wife and I have been great friends and she has commented several times on how she is glad her husband has a friend like me. She knows I'm no "threat" to her or their marriage...he and I have been friends for far to long for that to occur.
2007-01-09 22:49:45
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answered by Anonymous
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my husband's theory is that all men have one goal in common when they have female friends: and that is to get in their pants.
he says female friends are "in case of emergency break glass to get laid".
yes, I do think that he has a point, because many a male "friend" would make passes at me when I was younger.
In your situation, I think that it depends on how jealous your partner is. Jealousy goes hand in hand with trust, in my opinion. If you are open about your "female friends" from the get-go, your girl should be cool with it. As long as the "other women" aren't garnering more attention and time than your lady craves...
Happy dating!
2007-01-09 22:49:22
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answered by theverygrouchyladybug 2
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If the bf or gf are the jealous type, then there will definitely be problems.
2007-01-09 22:45:18
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answered by Da Tiebreaker 2
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i have been in this situation before. i do think eventually the other will get jealous. which will lead to relationship problems. now if your g/f or b/f doesnt at least question your friendship with the other sex thatn she/he might have something to hide
2007-01-09 22:48:15
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answered by d_mallios 2
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