what do you do if still have feelings for your ex. she's in a new relationship etc, but you still love her. how do the feelings decipate, if they ever do? sometimes people say, that meeting someone new is the answer. but what if you have, and yes, its a replacement etc, but deep down in your heart, you still love your ex. any suggestions?
2007-01-09 14:38:58 · 31 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe through alcohol,drugs,and time you will forget about her good luck ! .
2007-01-09 14:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man I am in the same boat, I don't think I will ever get over my ex! I love her more than anything in this world and she knows this. She told me she will always love me but she loves her freedom. It's been two and a half years since we ended our relationship, been divorced for 15 months. We see each other about three times a week. I just can't understand why she won't get back together with me. We had some problems and we have worked on them. She says you never know! But, I think she just says that not to break my heart all over again. I wish I knew the answer.
2007-01-09 14:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still in love with my ex. I've seen other people. It doesn't work. I'm not ever her yet, and it's especially hard now that she has a new girlfriend. But I'm hoping with time it'll go away. If you're constantly around her however, those feelings may never go away. Me and my ex have been apart for about a year now and I'm just starting not to cry every time I think about her. The reason being I've decided I'm not going to see her anymore. We were best friends after we broke up, but now that she's in a new relationship I can't deal with that.
So my advice is stay away from her for now. Time will help you out. Then you can still be around her. Maybe good friends, and perhaps you both will rekindle your love later.
2007-01-09 14:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Prophet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not time heals all wounds. I used to be that way about an ex and for 7 years all i wanted was him (BIG WASTE OF TIME) Now I see him and I don't feel anything. There are wonderful people out there and if she's moving on then I suggest you do the same. It is hard but sometimes it's inevitable. So don't let life, time and love pass you by.
2007-01-09 14:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I really wish I knew the answer to that. My ex boyfriend is in a new relationship and I'm still in love with him. We never would have broken up had he not thought I cheated on him. He had good reason to think I did but no real proof. And I didn't cheat on him. It breaks my heart to think how I could have prevented what happened. And also that he is everything I want and need, and everything I'm looking for, except he isn't very trusting. I've tried everything to get him to believe me and nothing has worked. I pretty much just gave up. I was going to try one last time after coming back from Christmas Break, but the day I got back I saw him with his new girl, and I couldn't go through with it.
2007-01-09 14:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would have to say that you need to follow your heart. If you are still in love with her, you need to do something about that. It wouldn't matter how many other women you went out with, all they would be is just prolonging the inevidible. You love her and you always will. There is nothing that another woman could do to replace that love you have for your ex. Maybe she is doing the same thing. But in the end, she will find out that nobody can replace you and she will come back to you. Never give up on your love for her. It will all work out.
2007-01-09 14:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You follow your heart. I bet 110% you lost her because of your pride. After you guys broke up, you sucked the pain and locked it up, meanwhile she found someone new and now it kills you to know you had that. Look, if you want to fix things it's not through other people it's through you and her. AKA communication. Just talk to her.. it won't kill you...as friends of course. I am sure you know that no girl ever replaces her no matter how close to perfect they are because she is the one who has your heart. You can still develop feelings for other people but nothing will ever compare. You will end up thinking about her and there will be times when you will imagine it was her with your new girlfriend. Obviously, in the end you will only kid yourself and lose time..and then realize you guys grew apart and it's too late. Don't put more time in between, talk to her man. Seriously, maybe she thinks about you too...how would you know? Us girls (while you guys are good at too) we know how to hide our feelings better than you guys.. You guys can't even stop staring if not communicating. It's written all over your face. Before getting more hurt and putting mountains between you two..call her up and say hello.
"If you want to know where your heart is look where your mind goes when it wanders"
Good luck
2007-01-09 14:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to let go when you love someone. Someone else is not the answer, at least not yet. The only thing that helps I find is time, lots and lots of time. Try to keep busy and before you know a day maybe two will go by and won't have thought about her. Then it will be longer stretches before you think about her. I'm sorry your heart got broken, good luck.
2007-01-09 14:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have those feelings for her because you loved her. You have to try a move on not find a replacement, because replacing them is not the right answer. You need to find someone who has some similar qualities that she had. By doing so it will be easier for you to move on with your life. Go out and have do worry about her, even though I know it will be hard because you still love her, but you have to love her enough to let her go. I hope this helps you.
2007-01-09 14:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feeling for your ex the best thing to do is move on.Try to go and find somebody new.Well if you can't get over your ex then maybe you should see how she feels and if she stills feels the same about you then you should try to make it work. I'm not saying go and ruin her new relationship but ask her how her new relationship is going and if she says it's not going so well then try and make your move.
2007-01-09 15:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Banks Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, if you truly DID love her, then you will always love her. I'm in the same boat, and I've been on both sides. It seems so wasteful, to just let someone THAT close to you, just die off a slow death. Call her, maybe.Don't always wonder, 'WHAT IF?'
Another possibility, is you're looking for an excuse not to go forward with your current chick.
2007-01-09 14:54:35 · answer #11 · answered by jemrx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋