boy problems???

Question

ok well the big problem is that i dont have boy problems.
i have no idea who im gonna go to prom with!!
everyone has already started asking..
but like, who would i go with?
all the guys at school are jerks (believe me, all the things i hear...everyone is really bad)
and i dont think anyone will ask me (they havnt asked me to the last dances, so what will make them ask me now?)
also, i dont work, so its not like i can ask someone from work.
and i dont talk to a lot of guys....
what should i do?
im scared i will be the only one out of my friends without a date (i am going to prom, date or no date).
its just, im tired of going to dances alone and watching other couples...and its prom...everyone will have a date and it will just be awkward.

theres no one i like at school tho..
the last guy i liked was at my old school, and he was so hot, but i switched schools since then and now hes in college...so yea..aint gonna happen.

it isnt until may....but ppl are already starting....and everyone's already buying dresses.
its crazy.

Answer 1

Woah, calm down. There are three options you have:

1) Go with a girlfriend that also doesn't have a date. You two would probably have more fun hitting than dance floor than you and another guy. For my Junior prom (last year) I went with my friend. We walked down the promenade together and were probably the hottest chicks there. It was great. And when the dancing started, we were the two that STARTED it. We were total dancing hussies...not sticking with one guy for two long and sometimes joining in with a whole group of friends.

2) Rock it alone. It's just like going with your friends...except they're all stuck with one guy, when you have plenty to choose from...even there's (they have to go to the bathroom at some point--haha).

3) Just ask someone. Trust me, it's not that hard. If they say no, they say no. Is that going to ruin your Prom nite? It shouldn't. If you don't want to ask one of your crushes, just take one of your guy-friends! Or you could be really bold and hand out "Prom Date Applications"...I had one friend that did this (it was pretty funny) and you wouldn't believe how many she got back. Only about 5 joking ones out of 15. She was too shy to ask anyone, so she just gave the applications to those that she would have asked...and she found a date.---So what does that tell you! DON'T FEAR REJECTION! THEY PROBABLY WERE GOING TO ASK YOU, BUT WERE TO SCARED! Be bold. Go for it!

Hope that helped.

Oh, yeah. And when is your Prom? Ours isn't until April/May. Just seems a bit early to be claiming dates.

Answer 2

Ight, I have a dance coming up soon 2, and I don't have a date, you know why? Because I am going to dance with every hot guy I see!!!!, Now as for you, find a good friend, or a bagboy at the local food city, where I am, damn, there's this bagboy and ever time I see him we have moments!! I can just feel him undressing me with his eyes, and going yes baby I want you, lol, but back to your problem, find just a good guy friend, and go from there. You are going to have a wonderful prom, with or without a steady dancing partner all night.

Answer 3

Tell this to your friends fuc.k Prom im going to get a Hotel and have a party in it and make flyers and hand them out find some other people who will want to be part if it and then get smashed at your hotel party and have a good time........... or look for an average person that you dont know and ask him out like the shy ones, some of them are probably real good looking( Im Not a ****.ot in any way possible, i just have to put that out there...) and down to earf...........

Answer 4

find a friend who isn't going with a guy either then "go together"..well just hang out with each other and lie don't be jealous. the worst thing you could do is take a family member..never do that..haha..but you don't need a guy to have fun with at prom. just be yourself and maybe a guy will ask you. theres a love for everyone. good luck and have fun!

Answer 5

Well I feel old enough to be your mother probably am!!!! Anyway are you throwing out these negative vibes? Start smiling flirting talking or just saying hi to some of the guys you might like to ask you to prom. Guys are insecure too ya know. Best of luck.

Answer 6

Just be the girl that brings alkeehol to the prom. Then boys will wanna hang out with you, and if youre lucky, you might get felt up! Trust me, nothing is cooler than a drunk and horny girl at the prom. All the boys will love you. And letit slip that you are taking the pill. Theyll be happy they wont need a condom.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Go with your Dad. He's not a jerk like the guys at school. If somebody asks you to dance with your Dad there, maybe he's not such a jerk. (Or maybe he's too smooth for both of you...) In any case, after all the others leave, your Dad will still be there.

Answer 9

If you have a guy friend just ask him. If not, there is nothing wrong with going by yourself. Would you be more comfortable going by yourself or with some random guy that you hardly know anything about and possibly have bad memories of prob with. Whatever you decide just be yourself and have fun with your friends.

Answer 10

There are alot of people who go to prom with just their close girlfreinds. Well there has to be some guys you talk to, you may not like him, but be aquanted with, ask him to go with you as freinds.
Good luck