i know women are more emotional than men but what is a girl to do, if the only time he is affectionate is during sex. also he is not understanding to me when we have a problem. what should i do?
2007-01-09 14:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he's just a normal, stupid, half empty guy. You will only find a man who's smart enough to pretend to be emotionally available. That whole terminology came from a woman, anyway. I'm not trying to be mean, I just am giving you the truth. He hasn't learned yet how important it is to listen and be understanding. And he is probably to immature to know how to fulfill your needs totally. Any boy can have sex. Even if he doesn't REALLY care, it wouldn't bother you if he'd just act like he does.
2007-01-09 14:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nobody's perfect. If your guy have a problem ... talk it about it slowly ... if that does not help ... the best way to solve this problem is not breaking up but to stay away from him for a couple of days... and soon he will realize that what he has been missing ....
2007-01-09 14:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by krwling1050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Marry him, he already sounds like a husband (emotionally unavailable).
2007-01-09 14:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by americandream1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how you feel, and if he doesnt change....find someone who fits the bill. I know exactly how you feel and if he's not putting in the same amount of effort you are, you deserve better.
2007-01-09 14:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find a new boyfriend. You're obviously not getting what you need from him so why are you wasting your time?
2007-01-09 14:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him and find out
2007-01-09 14:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is say "goodbye".
if he's only 'emotional' while he's getting his rocks off, then there's no emotional connection there.
2007-01-09 14:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by copenhagenskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't much fun, but you can keep seeing him, and maybe in ten yrs. he will be yours.
2007-01-09 14:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋