I've known this guy for about 5 months. We finally ended up sleeping together right before Christmas... 2 different times. I never heard from him after the holidays and I found that he has a girlfriend, and has had one for quite a while. He cheated on his girlfriend with me. I thought we were friends. I feel used and hurt. I don't want (nor did I ever want) a relationship with him or anything than just sex.
Should I confront him about his and tell him I'm aware of the situation? Or drop it since he'll always be a loser that cheats on his girlfriends.
I could care less to have an actual relationship with him, but I don't want him to feel like he "got away with it," or that it's "ok."
Do I send him an e-mail... or what... I don't know.
I know I should just drop it. I guess I just need affirmation.
please don't be mean :)
2007-01-09 14:26:18 · 17 answers · asked by Lizzie T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a "skank." Grow up before you say things like that about ppl you don't know. Ppl sleep together. That's life. It sounds like you don't; or if you do, you have the idea that guys are "pimps" and girls are "skanks."
I hadn't slept with anyone 2 years prior to that. I thought I trusted him b/c I knew him.
2007-01-09 14:34:41 · update #1
Please don't answer this unless you're answering my questions specifically.
I don't need lessons on morality. I'm 26 years old.
MISTAKES HAPPEN IN LIFE. I'M AWARE OF THAT.
I just watned a little advice from a random crowd.
Sheesh...
2007-01-09 14:41:15 · update #2
**I feel used and hurt. I don't want (nor did I ever want) a relationship with him or anything than just sex.
You answered your own question. If all you wanted was sex, then why should you care if he had a girl friend? Is it because he cheated on her? You didn't know he had a girl friend, so don't be hard on yourself ok. If it makes you feel better tell him off via email, or just forget about it and chalk it up to experience. Karma will take care of him.
2007-01-09 14:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got what you wanted out of it(sex),now don't ever let it happen again.You need to get to know someone really well,even like that they will still lie if they can get away with it.Take care.Sad for his girlfriend-she gets to keep the loser.
2007-01-09 14:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. Obviously he's a cheater, but his girlfriend will learn about it eventually on her own. As for a friendship with him, are sure you want someone you can't believe or trust as a friend.
2007-01-09 14:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by ruby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Shouldnt be sleeping around in the first place, not to be rude but it is true. Before you sleep with anyone find out more about them and if you even consider getting back with him because he says he loves you well it might not be the best thing to do.
2007-01-09 14:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aye man what happend with her I hope you didn't go back don't listen to the others mans a relationship is all about being honest she wasn't man I hoped you dumped her bro you were her backup plan
2016-05-23 01:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it honey! you could do so much better than some guy that is supposed to be a "friend" but cheats on his longtime girlfriend just for some sex. is it really that hard to be honest about it? really. you could do better than that. Good luck!
2007-01-09 14:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by No_S_Kape 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIS GF HUN!!! FIND OUT ABOUT HER. It might hurt her, but if i were her, i will want to know as well if my bf d*cking around.
Let her know that she is dating a cheater, and it will give her a chance to meet a better men and give that bast*rd a tough lesson too!
2007-01-09 14:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both got what you wanted. Let it go if you are being real about your expectations from the beginning.
2007-01-09 14:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you felt about the brief relationship and then move on some guys can be jerks.
2007-01-09 14:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mailyahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on it. Your time is too precious for guys like him. Charge it to experience and move on. You'll be a much better person for it.
2007-01-09 14:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋