He says he wants to have our kittens sleep on him instead of cuddling with me because he feels if he pushes them away, they won't like us anymore and will become distant. I, on the other hand, very much dislike them sleeping "on" me literallly. One of them always sleeps on my bf's neck, so I get a tail in the face and that's it. Total cuddle killer.
2007-01-09 14:11:08 · 5 answers · asked by h.marieh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kittens? Our two-year-old daughter does the same thing to us! ;-)
If he is afraid the kittens won't be as affectionate if they don't sleep with him, his fears are totally unfounded. He can give them plenty of attention the rest of the day. We have a cat named Brutus (because he was the "brute" of the litter) who is the sweetest, most loving cat imaginable. Cats sleep most of the day. You can't be with them the whole time. All you are doing is teaching them that they can invade your space whenever they feel like it -- actually they already naturally feel that way, you are merely reinforcing it!
If he prefers sleeping with cats than cuddling with you (even when you wear a "cat suit" MEOW!) then you seriously have some intimacy issues that need to be addressed PRONTO! Please discuss this with him. Hopefully he can see your point of view.
2007-01-09 14:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if he doesn't cuddle with you, you will become distant and won't like him anymore- has he thought about that one?
2007-01-09 14:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, wait until you have kids..I wake up everyday with a caboose in my face (my daughter behind) or an elbow...she thinks I am this human mattress!
2007-01-09 14:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prefers kittens to a woman? ewww I would start looking for a new bf if I were you.
2007-01-09 14:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋