my cousin stares at me alot i can always feel it then when i tried to look him backl he will suddenly look the other way but sometimes im the one who cant stand it i will look the other way, somestimes when hes telling jokes to us he will look at me smiling then i smiled back i somestimes notices that when he kisses her little sister he is staring at me, when also im talking he stares at me too , he is also nice like when the first time i drank and want to drank more he is teasing me that i should stop and smiling then giving hes tea i cant pretend that i dont enjoy it hes damn adorable so cute the way he acts omg... but sometimes its just like hes ignoring me the whole day then next day he will get my attention...
there too many cute others to mention like smiling at me joking at me making up stories wah hes driving me nuts
i live with them by the way
i know my limitations anyway but i just cant help not to enjoy it
man im crazy ill be honest sometyms i think i like him
2007-01-09 14:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him
2007-01-09 14:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Everyone in my family is so friggin hott. I go to a family reunion and I'm like DAMMIT WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE SO HOTT lmao. But I've never had a crush on any of them, so I guess I wouldn't know what to do in our exact situation. Are you sure you don't just have food on your face or sumthin? lol, jk. Are you related by blood or by marriage? If its by marriage then I guess you're good... but be prepared for some serious shunning from peers/ maybe relatives if you go after him. Maybe your cousin is just being creepy... I guess that's what cousins do! lol best wishes! By the way, ignore the name calling. People shouldn't judge you for this, it happens all the time. ****Also, I just read an article that said ppl choose partners w/ the same traits as their siblings usually... if your cousin is like a brother to you that would explain it . I know when I get a hubby I want him just like my little brother (^_^)!! YAY!!
2016-05-23 01:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all hes your cousin for gods sake! Hes either your moms sister or brothers son or your dads sister or brothers son so basically engaging any sort of relationship is incest. Secondly don't even bother looking for hints if he likes you hes is your cousin which = family member. Don't just don't even think about the possibilities of what might happen if you to do engage in a relationship and decide to have sex. Its just morally wrong and sin full. Like it has been done you know but those who have done it (engage in a relationship with their cousin) totally regret it. And their children suffer as a consequence of their silly ignorant mistake. I hope you make the right decision as to not even hope for a relationship between you 2 or to even think about one or fantasies. The idea just makes you sick to your stomach. Its like liking your brother, only difference is one parent is a sibling of one of your parents and they married to a different person. Remember your cousin still has your genes and as long as that's possible that means that its considered incest if you two were to have a relationship and become sexually active. Hope you make the right decisions.
Best of wishes, Keisha.
2007-01-09 14:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya, I went through the same thing just about. You need to get over it and move on. You do not wanna end up like my relatives who've married their cousins becuase of the time period they lived in. you need to find someone who isn't blood related to get hooked up with.
2007-01-09 14:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by white trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your'e not making a baby (so genetics don't enter into it) I'd say go ahead and satisfy that curiosity and scratch that itch. Be safe, but go for it - it's no big deal as long as you know you're not making like a serious relationship or anyting. My first sex was with a cousin, and its really common anyway I learned.
2007-01-09 14:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're probably better finding someone else. before it turns into a real attraction or a problem in the family. living with him will only make the situation more complicated if you really like him.
2007-01-09 14:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesyesyes u should DEFINITELY stop that! it's like edgar allen poe!! u shoujld NOT be liking your cousin! i mean think about it if you let it go to far everyone is gonna know!! especially if it goes wayyyyy to far and u guys get married and have kids, they will have problems and be deformed and stuff because your related! not good!!
2007-01-09 14:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a little flirting just remember he's your cousin and you can never do anything with him.
2007-01-09 14:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by scruffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with them, find someone else to get a crush on.
2007-01-09 14:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this deformed kids
2007-01-09 14:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by zak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋