I am in my mid twenties and never had a boyfriend or intercourse. To get the obvious questions out of the way, I model part time, and very attractive , not conceited just letting you know how I look, C cup breast, flat stomach, skinny and smell good and educated. Other than dinner dates from boys at high school, I never had a boyfriend and only get kissed 20 days out of every year or less. I begged my last date to tell me why he refused to continue seeing me, he said I will never have a man if I don't sleep with them, unless they are really old and dying or really young and ugly. Is that true? I have been suffering from depression and can not go on lonely anymore. I will never sleep with a guy before I marry him, not that any guy ever stays long enough to marry ANYWAY. I have been thinking about paying guys to date me or maybe an escort? I am willing to allow my man to sleep with other women, and they still don't want me. How do I keep a man?
2007-01-09 14:03:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"he said I will never have a man if I don't sleep with them, unless they are really old and dying or really young and ugly. Is that true?"
Nope. not true. Never had sex with my ex. Spending time with her is what i wanted.
2007-01-09 14:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Souljurr 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I mean this rude in no way, but maybe you are representing yourself too sexy. Sometimes if you give that appearance that is all you will get. Being attractive alot of times can make it hard to find a man who can see beyond the exterior. Then to, maybe you are attracted to the wrong kind of guy. Dont pay an escort or allow them to sleep with other women. Dont disrespect your self like that. If you have enough respect for yourself to wait then you should have the pride make your man wait. (and do be proud of yourself). If you wouldnt sleep with just anyone why would you want someone who would? Look at the upside, least you are not wasting your time with some guy who just wants a piece and will just dump you once he is bored. Just bare with it and keep your self respect. I am attractive and never had sex until I was married and he is all I ever wanted and more. So ignore what your last date told you.
2007-01-09 14:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥noey♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING. First, your man should not be allowed to sleep with anyone other than you.
Secondly, virginity is such a speacial thing. If a guy doesnt respect that then you are not dating the right kinds of guys.
Stop stressing and start getting out there meeting new people.
2007-01-09 14:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but you best believe that he will find sex somewhere else. You know the ugly girl with the great body??? But don't give up hope. Find another virgin and you both can wait til you're ready. Never give your man permission to sleep around. He will be all washed up by the time you are ready not to metion he may catch something or give you something when you decide to give him some.
2007-01-09 14:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll for one you need to pick yourself up and shake it off from any previous rondavous. Don't lower your standards to some guy who thinks he's the $%*@. you need to realize that your not some sex slave and that you deserve better your a human being just like everyone else you need the hugs and kisses and cuddling it doesnt have to always be about sex. and if you dont find that guy right off the bat then keep looking just keep your head up n smile
2007-01-09 14:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you wont have sex right away... You arent the girl that guys can have a one night stand with... If they want to sleep with you taht bad they can get to know you, love you, and marry you. There are guys out there that meet your requirements just sucks that you cant bump into them, i guess nice guys like that dont take your pictures to the bathroom and do you know what :S
2007-01-09 14:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by David E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! You can do this if he is a good, honorable man, worth spending your life with. Do not be willing to have your man sleep w/ other women. The reason they dont want you, is becasue they do not respect you allowing them to do that and think you have no self-respect.
You only want to keep a man worth having. If the man is not willing to wait for you, good bye!, NEXT, until you find the GOOD, Perfect, respectful man for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 14:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Heather Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO DONT EVER PAY FOR THAT!!!! its all about love hun, its all about love. u need to put ur self out there, be out going. guys are always looking.
dont ever sleep with a guy just to have a boy friend, thats what they want dont do it it will turn u into a bad person.
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2007-01-09 14:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really good girl with great moral values, and just hang in there. The right guy will come along one day and you will be so thankful. Try a church life group.
2007-01-09 14:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I've been with my girlfriend for more than four months and we are perfectly happy without having sex. What you need to do is find a NICE guy and stop going for the jocks. Find yourself a good guy that's in to things other than sports.
-Twitch
2007-01-09 14:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Twitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋