I'm friendly, and I'm smart. I've been told that I'm pretty, although I'm not very confident. Guys always ignore me, and I don't think any guys like me. What am I doing wrong?
2007-01-09 13:57:56 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be anything . . . your personality, your height, your weight, your look, the people you hang out with, etc. Or maybe you're just imagining things. I'm sure there are lots of guys around you that feel ignored also. Anyway, you will have much more luck if you go up to guys and talk to them! If you still don't get any attention, ask them out! And don't be afraid of a little rejection. Normal guys get rejected like 90% of the time. Good night!
2007-01-09 14:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question could be better addressed by the question >What am i doing to make it possible for someone to like me?
You have to make some things happen. You can't always do this, but you can make them possible to happen.
If you are asking for advice, I would tell you that men of all ages like nice girls. If you are friendly to go with smart and pretty, you should have nothing to worry about. When people are young, they often despair that they will never meet someone and that they are not good enough. Keep your head up and be able to say I'm a good person, and you can't go wrong. Your character will show through in the end. A guy would be a sucker to ignore you then.
2007-01-09 14:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you are doing something wrong, it's just that you are trying too hard; even if you think you aren't. The more you worry about it, the harder it's going to be for a guy to come up to you. Believe it or not, guys do like you. There's most likely a guy around you that has a crush on ya but is afraid to tell you because you seem so troubled about something. Appearing confident in yourself and having a smile on your face really helps getting a guy's attention. That always works for me!
2007-01-09 14:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gads!!! Some of the above answers are so ... dumb!
Okay, presuming you are young ...
1) Guys are funny animals (Yeah, I am one, although much older).
2) Gals grow up a heck of a lot faster than guys! In almost every way!
3) I can all but guarantee that there is a guy out there who likes you! Many of us feel 'unworthy' of someone like you! We place you so high up above us that it is difficult to speak with you! (from experience).
You are doing nothing wrong! It is we (guys) who do not know how to act in your presence!
In time, the right guy(s) will find you!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2007-01-09 14:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that your intelegence shows too much. Most guys do not like girls that are really smart.
try asking the guys questions even if you know the answer. You will get many wrong answers.
Personaly I would rather have one around that is smart and practicle and does ot have to be protty. Not down right ugly though. Never found her so will keep what I have.
2007-01-09 14:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that guys don't like you. You probably don't know when they do. Some guys are intimidated by smart and pretty women. If you are a little shy, go with a dating service (Internet, phone, etc.). That way you can talk to a person first before meeting them. The first date wont be as awkward for you.
2007-01-09 14:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said it...because you're not very confident. Confidence screams sexiness, and both genders can pick it up. The trick is to go after who you want but not to take rejection personally. You know you want a certain type of person and that's true for the guys you go after too...and maybe you're just not the type for them. But you will find a person who you're compatible with and everything will be fine.
2007-01-09 14:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by hawksocc8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to really know is to ask someone you trust if theres something youre doing or not doing that would cause that problem. Ask them to be honest and then dont take it the wrong way since youre asking for help. Try to find a way to change it.
If you have any guy friends you could ask them.
2007-01-09 14:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to be mean but you might not be the greatest looking thing in the world. same thing with me yeah im alright but who knows lol. other than that you might be TOO shy (always remember guys are more scared of you than you are of them you control the sex lol), you might exhibit innapropiate and/or immature behaviour, you might be loud and/or flighty, you might just be in the wrong place at the wrong time, you might not have much of a social life (im there lol). Numerous things can be a turn off. Sometimes you just don't get noticed. Sometimes life happens!
2007-01-09 14:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by joethemetaldude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mic .......lol cause you suck....lol awww
well maybe guys are just intimidated by your beauty..... see i'am a very shy person i usually dont try to interact with differet people i just wait untill it happends or when im invited ...etc my modo if some one really likes you or wants to talk to you then they will do so surely enought it has happend many many times dont be in any rush to look for some one who will probably break your heart later on just chill relax and be confident.........
2007-01-09 14:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋