My uncle & i are extremly close. To a point where i could walk into his office & shill at his couch & chat. His an advocate,normally people would find it so wrong as i would lean on his shoulder & chat & some friends thought it was strange. Not that i did. Lately i found myself getting more & more attracted to him & looking pass the point of that his my uncle. We spoke about it & he feels the same way. I know its wrong but how can i move past it?
2007-01-09 13:57:32 · 12 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WRONG
2007-01-09 14:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong? Just because others think it is wrong does not mean it is wrong for the two of you. I would suggest that you two do not have children together but beyong that I can see nothing wrong with a good relatonship.
People are people and when two get along well then what is wrong with that? Probably better than most of you out there will do.
2007-01-09 23:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should back away and look at the hole picture! He his family member, a brother to either mom or dad. That's something you should not want to even think of having anything more then niece and uncle relationship cuz it is wrong and it will mess everything up!
2007-01-09 22:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS UNETHICAL HOW CAN YOU SEE HIM PAST MORE THEN YOUR UNCLE HOW ABOUT SPENDING TIME WITH PEOPLE YOUR AGE . YOU NEED TIME AWAY FROM YOUR UNCLE FOR GODS SAKE STAY AWAY FOR AWHILE. YOUR UNCLE IS WRONG FOR THINKING THE SAME AS YOU . OH MY GOD THAT IS SO SCARY I KNOW ITS POSSIBLE BUT ITS MORALLY WRONG. YOU SHOULD SEEK COUNSELING GO TO CHURCH OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. ITS VERY WRONG ITS UNEXPLAINABLE THAT YOU WOULD MOVE FORWARD DONT DO IT YOUR FAMILY WOULD NEVER SHE IT RIGHT AND YOUR UNCLE IS TRULY WRONG. ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A FATHER FIGURE? IF SO HES NOT TO BE LOOKED AT MORE THEN YOUR UNCLE OKAY. YOU NEED TO STOP IMMEDIATELY!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 22:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're probably going to get bad remarks, but ignore. Sometimes this happens.
Ask yourself first, do you want to move past it because you don't love him? Or because the public see's this wrong to fall in love with a family member...?
Take your pick, and think about that deeply.
+J+
2007-01-09 22:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u have to cut your feelings towards him ASAP. cuz this will lead to a big problem. good thing u know its wrong. thats a good sign that its your mind still working rather than your heart.
2007-01-09 22:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, people might frown on that one. Good luck.
2007-01-09 22:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the brother of one of your parents...you'd darned well better move past it.
2007-01-09 22:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's RELATED to you! try to stay away from him for a while...if it's hard to stay away, just talk to him on the phone, and maybe you will forget about your feelings for him...
2007-01-09 22:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that HE'S YOUR UNCLE.
2007-01-09 22:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better stay away from him.
2007-01-09 22:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋