Need Relationship Help Please?

Question

How would you feel if your girlfriend/boyfriend gave her/his number to someone of the opposite sex, especially if they found them attractive?

My girlfriend gave a boy her number while we are going out. It bothers me but i dont want to overreact or anything, and the worst part is she loves his body which also pisses me off. What should i do and how should i react?

Answer 1

She obviously want you to break up with her so that she is not the bad person and is free to go out with this other guy with out guilt.

Answer 2

Sometimes people learn from seeing it happen to them, rather than you trying to talk to her about it. Just find a really pretty girl and ask her for her number in front of your girlfriend. Maybe someone you already know. Someone that you know she is already a little jealous over maybe. This is probably not the best advice but, most of the time it is what works the best. You could try asking her why she did that but, if you do and she sees that it upset you, she will probably do it again and again and again.

Answer 3

Personaly I would not like it at all if my girlfriend did that.

But it depends, all diffrent couples have all diffrent kinda of relationshps and i have seen some relationship were both poeple in it are like this and there are both cool with each other doing it.

Again personaly i think poeple like this are stupid. But its all up to which kind of relationship you want to have with her and just how close you want to be.

if you dont want the kind of relationship where she is giving out her number to other guys then you will have to speak to her about it. its normal for poeple in ALL relationships to be attracted to other poeple, but its when they start acting on that attraction that things in time WILL HAPPEN.

you really need to talk to her about this and you really need to ask yourself if your with the right girl that wants to have the same close relationship as you want.

Answer 4

umm, we're girls. Even though we have a bf, doesnt mean we cant find other guys "hott" or "attractive". Therres NO WAY you can make us stop that. If a Playboy model came over to you and asked you for your number, you would give it to her, right? well its the same thing with us. i HATE WHEN GUYS THINK ONCE THEYSTARTED GOING OUT WITH A GIRL, THEY THINK THEY TURNED THE OFF BUTTON OR SOMETHING THAT MAKES US NOT FIND OTHER GUYS HOT.

Answer 5

Tell her exactly how you feel... just like you did writing this question. Tell her.... "I don't want to overreact but..." and tell her the truth. Honesty is the foundation of any good relationship

And after that... you'll just have to take it from there. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Talk to her about it. She won't initialize any conversations, but if you do she will be more likely to talk about it. Tell her that it bothers you and you want to be able to fully trust each other. Tell her that you trust her, but aren't comfortable with her giving numbers to guys she finds attractive. good luck!

Answer 7

Tell her that it bothered u and u find it to be rude of her to brag to u about his body. What is she trying to imply? Don't over react, but inform her how you feel?

Answer 8

If you care about her talk to her. Let her know how you feel. Ask her how does she feel? Then talk to her about what happen. If she says, that she want to break up let it be OK. There are a lot of girls out there.

Answer 9

Tell her how you feel. Remember,she is going out with you, not him. She could go out with him, but isn't. Just let her know how you feel. It might be hard, but you gotta let it out. GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 10

Tell her you like another girls body and she how she likes it.