Okay i cant tell someone off for nothing. At school i am constantly teased because i actually am trying to earn my education and have goals for college. To make it quite frank i am tired of being teased for no reason. I am a very kind person but in return i am treated like $hit. I go to special edd program. Can someone please give me some good ways of telling the people off that are rude to me. Ignoring is no option anymore
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2007-01-09 13:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The only thing you CAN do is ignore it. You don't want to get yourself in trouble, and you'd just be lowering yourself to their level. Just take solace in knowing that in 4 years, or however long, you will be a college graduate doing what you do best earning big dollars, and they'll still be flipping burgers at mickey d's for minimum wage. Seen it happen more than once! Hang in there sweetheart. It will get better. I promise!!
2007-01-09 14:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by DishclothDiaries 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say right off the top, if you are in special ed program, you'd need to talk to the office...check out the book about hazing...it's not a lite subject...you could now sue your school for not protecting you, and if you don't feel comfortable about any of that you can go to MHMR, mental health and mental retardation, that does not make you retarded, some people need special needs, I am one of them..I just started going to MHMR..they will help you get a counselor, where you will have someone to listen to the things you need help with, like handling day to day problems. I am so impressed you are working for college money, atta girl, go!!!!also MHMR can help you with job placement and school, that is what they do..lots of people don't know what all they can do...they not only help retarded people but people that are NOT retarded, mental health has a lot to do with depression and needing medications for a life time..like me, I have to have thyroids for the rest of my life, not all medications have to do with making you feel drugged up. and as for you being kind, you keep it up girlfriend, living right is the best revenge, good judgment will never be replaced with just being cool. I hope you act on this information quickly as it sounds like your hazing is continuous! good luck...oh, what I forgot to tell you is if you go to MHMR and they accept you as a client, you are protected by the law if anyone harms you it is an automatic going to jail card, you cannot play with the state's sick people. (shouldn't be playing around with anyone's life!)
2007-01-15 08:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For someone who has done such a great job realizing your goals, you sound much more mature than those who "pick" on you. Unless it gets violent. maintain your maturity and let it slide off your back. Let them know that what they are saying to you means nothing to you as you're way above name-calling and bullying. Which reminds me..I don't know what State you're in but bullying and /or hazing has become a crime in most school districts. Good Luck to you kiddo, you've got your head on straight. You're going to be just fine, the punks will find another victim unfortunately.
2007-01-09 22:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple years ago I was picked on in school and I fought like he11 to get them to leave me alone. finally I got too tired to fight with them anymore and moved onto pretending to ignore them and that what they said didn't hurt until I wasn't pretending. I am now more successful than themand am going to make something of myself while they're stuck in fast food and retail for the rest of their lives. one of my new favorite sayings is: "Success is the best revenge"
2007-01-15 00:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear sometimes there are people eho are not worth talking to because you are more educated than them. You do not need to waste your energy on people who appparently utter lies all the time .So i say do not put yourself at their level by answering back i say ignore them coz they are so little that you cannot see them.
2007-01-10 03:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by winta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling off is not a good idea. There will always be someone who comes up with another clever thing to say. It's better to tell the teacher or principal about it.
2007-01-09 21:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are jealous of you.
You know what you want. You are intelligent. You have great goals and will achieve great things ! High school is the toughest place, time to go throught. You need to smile, like you mean it. and know in your heart that they are lost... by peer pressure and by trying to fit in... THey will NOT get to you !
:)
2007-01-13 11:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've got it together to me. people (idiots) can be cruel.they just have'nt grown up yet.stay focused on yourself & you will eventually have the last laugh.I wish i could help you. good luck & try not to let it get to you.
2007-01-09 21:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say,.....". In 10 years I will see you again, and you'll be calling me "Boss".
2007-01-10 12:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hey..ya know what one day you will be pumpin my gas in my mercedes.
2007-01-17 11:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋