I dated this very handsome guy for almost 5 years (since I was 19) and we broke up about 2yrs ago now. I'm currently living with my boyfriend of over a year and my old boyfriend recently came back into the picture. I still have feelings for the first one but I'm pretty commited to the second and now I don't know what to do. I love them both and don't want to hurt either of them but I'm not sure how to go about chooseing which one to be with. I'm starting to get bored with my current boyfriend but I'm not sure if that's part of life; eventually things get boring...or if it's a sign of things to come.
HELP
2007-01-09 13:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by DKMA123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first step to getting the things you want out of life is this - DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT FOR
be happy with only 1 person ( life is to compromise & you opt for the best )dont let yourself become pendulam or your entire life will tiked away before you get time even to think what you have found & lost.
2007-01-09 15:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by rajan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did Your Current Boy Friend Know Abt Your First Boy Friend.If Yes And He Doesnt Care Abt That Then Plz Dont Break His Heart .Bcoz U Have A Break-OFF With First One And The Next Time History Always Repeat, Thats All Its Your Life U Have To Think That Who Cares For U.
2007-01-09 15:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by shahnawaz s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back to your previous bf. You are starting to get bored with your current bf and assume it's part of life. Things could get worse and it is dangerous to assume such important things in life. Don't worry about hurting anyone, do the right thing, make the right choice, if not life may hurt you, and hurt you a lot. Feelings of love is more important than committement. You will get a lot of committement as you mature in life, but you may not get love.
2007-01-09 15:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well um maybee you can call them both on dinner at your house or something and tell the whole truth out.. i know it can hurt you & your boyfriends but like also other advices , it's the best thing to do.. if you keep a secret from both.. you can get even more hurt at the end..and just wait for the one that excepts the whole situation and just wants to move on with you forgetting the past.
2007-01-09 15:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by bαby mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever u find, eventually u will get bored. no guarantee u will be happy with the first one, and when u get bored with him, there is no guarantee the current one will come into the picture to keep u amused then.............so the best thing is to keep a stock and choose a new one form ur kitty of boyfriends when u r bored........all the best
2007-01-11 03:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So U want variety every time...like International dishes...Indian,American,Japanese... or Desi stuff Gujarathi,Punjabi,Southie,Bengali...Pl decide fast and Choose at the earliest...Enjoy Life..Do Not worry about moral values or Indian Culture...Who cares those values now a days?? Live at this moment ..make merry!!
2007-01-09 15:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the only way is to tell both of them how you feel. i know it will hurt one of them, but it's the only thing you can do. say it in a nice way i guess so that it won't hurt as much, but you've gotta tell them the truth.
2007-01-09 13:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by i like turtles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose a new one
otherwise, you will be bored again!
2007-01-09 15:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by creek007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to get your own place and be single again.
2007-01-09 13:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋